Meet Alyssia-Simone Deery

Today we’d like to introduce you to Alyssia-Simone Deery.

Hi Alyssia-Simone. Thanks for sharing your story with us. To start, maybe you can tell our readers some of your backstories.
A woman of many aspirations, talents, and traits. Speaker, Poetess, Actress, Writer, Influencer, and Creator.

My story began in Tri-Cities, WA, In what felt like a small town, but the population stated otherwise. As most people usually have something slightly negative to say about the city they were raised in, I have learned to outgrow such a commonality. Now, if you would have asked teenage me about my thoughts on the place, I would have told you it was bland, lacked originality and surely was not an environment for the open-minded. Growing up in Tri-Cities had been a difficult time for my development as the diverse woman I am. Younger me had felt that I had to confine myself, shrink myself down a bit, and stop being overly eccentric. However, no matter the stunts it placed on my self-esteem, I always managed to make my way and pull through in the end. By pulling through, I mean attending the basics of an adolescent lifestyle, such as being on Honor Roll, participating in Varsity sports, being crowned a Juneteenth Pageant Princess; Attempting to blend in and not stick out like a sore thumb, even though low-key I always enjoyed unique and the over-achiever in the room. Now it may sound like I truly loved my life, but my forced time spent there was simply the beginning of life. I had found myself dealing with severe depression, anxiety, and ADHD at a young age. I am just your ‘normal’ teenage girl, my mental health was overlooked by many, and it was up to me to not only maneuver through this diagnosed journey but prepare for what it may bring in the future.

At 17, I had graduated High School and prepared myself for the real world, excited and eager to finally relocate to a place that wasn’t so close-minded and ‘snow-globe’ like. So imagine 17-year-old me, packing up my bags and moving away from my mother to Arizona, with the thought that life would do an absolute makeover. Thinking that my personality and self-expression would be accepted by all people, the depression would remove itself from my mind, and all other troubles would be cured. It sounds like a teenage dream, doesn’t it? As I began my months attending ASU, I quickly learned that things do not go away with the snap of a finger or the purchase of an airline flight. But, that dream I had envisioned for myself in Arizona is where everything began to change.

Being 21 and spending these past four years in Arizona, I have begun the transformation of becoming the woman I always have dreamed of. I received my Bachelor of Science in Psychology Cum Laude with a minor in Business at 20. During those quick passing years as a college student, I realized I was a student in LIFE. I stopped dreaming about my mental health issues suddenly disappearing and started embracing who I truly was at the core. I not only put a priority on learning from school books but on learning myself. I quickly discovered that I enjoyed expressing who I was, the good and the ugly. I realized that I loved to speak publicly about all topics, the things people keep hidden, and the things that are ‘normal’ to scream from the mountain top. I had uncovered that I was a great listener, and in return, I admired when people felt heard and seen by me.

I soon fell in love with my life and myself; And not just the outward appearance that everyone talks about, but the inner parts of me, the ones that I used to hide, pieces of me I thought I should confine, and the components I avoided that made me that woman of many extraordinary things. So now, I am still in the midst of my journey, yet filled with love and high off of life’s lessons, so what does Alyssia-Simone do? She shares it with the world. She applies her knowledge, self-education, and experiences with her friends, strangers, social media audience, those who need it, and those willing to hear her speak it. Remember how I said I grew out of the commonality of hating my hometown? That’s because I learned that the only way I can impact the world, influence the close-minded to be more open, and inspire people to fall in love with themselves is by sharing my growth, expressing authenticity, and show-casing that ‘being true to you’ is the best approach of life. Years of trials and tribulations later, I thank my not-so-small hometown of Tri-Cities for showing me that I can be whatever that is I dream of being.

I’m sure you wouldn’t say it’s been obstacle-free, but so far would you say the journey has been fairly smooth?
“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. – J.K Rowling’s”

At 18 years old, I decided to tattoo that quote upon my ribs, followed by my ‘Warr; or” tattoo on my wrist that symbolizes mental health awareness. Those two inked markings became a remembrance that only a few things remain permanent and that depression and intrusive thoughts are not one of them.

After being diagnosed with Depression, Anxiety, ADHD, and Bipolar Disorder, I felt I was unwillingly stripped from being viewed as ‘normal’ in society. That wasn’t the case, but that’s how this day and age can make the ‘Mentally Ill’ feel. For the first few years of my diagnosis, I hid behind the scenes of reality, avoided my emotions, floated through life like a particle of dust, and made myself believe I had been predisposed to a life full of sadness and gloom. Existing felt like a chore, especially when my psychiatrist recommended I try medication. I feared being viewed as unstable, reliant on mood-stabilizers and anti-depressants to even force a smile on the crowd, and I had hit rock bottom. It took time, lots of time, and still takes up parts of my day to remind myself that I am not my diagnosis, I am not an illness, and that there are no ‘perfect persons.’ Fighting my battle with depression and BP has been a maze over time, but something that I now find so amazing. I had begun viewing my diagnosis as extra gifts given by God; being a warrior has pushed me to take time with myself, learn my triggers, and discover the greatness that comes with it, such as my creativity, impulsive urge to write poetry for hours, and most importantly my desire to help those around me. By sharing my testimony and being honest about my experiences with Mental Illness, I have met some of the most amazing, kind-hearted, and influential souls I’ve ever witnessed. I have been given the opportunity for others to confide in me during their times of trouble, and I had created a safe place for people I never thought existed when I was a little girl. As I am still presented with unwarranted feelings of extreme sadness, waves of guilt, and moments of unaccounted anger and angst, my mental health is a challenge I would not take back, and I have made it a goal in life to assist others in confronting their battles as well.

To my soldiers fighting the biggest battle within themselves, you are stronger than you perceive yourself to be. I know at times you may feel weakened by your mind and assume you cannot reach self-transformation, but I am here to tell you that I SEE YOU.

Can you tell our readers more about what you do and what you think sets you apart from others?
As I am attaining my Masters’s Degree in Clinical Psychology, I have spent a large portion of my time building a platform for myself that showcases the diversity I bring to the table. My assorted capabilities and interests set me apart from many, as I believe I am a utility player with multiple niches, hobbies, and aspirations.

Social Media: My social media presence showcases my daily life and all the wonders in my mind. I tend to post content related to Wellness, Mental Health, Lifestyle, and Productivity while sometimes falling off track with goofy media personality content because that’s simply who I am. I want to view myself as a motivator, a person of impact, and a woman who empowers. My social platforms aim to build a community, relate with others, and remind people there is nothing wrong with being divergent. I hope to always bring the realness back to Instagram within my content and shed positivity with a mixture of comedy and transparency.

Entertainment: Over time, they had told me that I am welly articulate, interesting to listen to, and have plenty of stories to tell. This led me to boost my entertainment portfolio and begin Audio Storytelling and Creative Writing. I am now a Self-Help Podcast Host and Producer. Streaming on 8 different platforms called ‘SPILLS.’ My podcast embarks on a growth journey, providing honest advice in an unfiltered environment. I have also created a personal website where I publish self-written poetry, spoken word pieces, and blog articles relating to Self-Care and Self-Love.

Freelance Work: As the digital world has developed over time, I have taken advantage of updating technological trends and have taught myself a diverse range of skills that could classify me as being ‘tech-savvy’; Such as Web Developing Video Editing, Digital Creation, and Audio Engineering. This prowess has allowed me to become a successful freelance creative, gain clients and meet more of the innovative crowd.

Digital Marketing/Public Relations: With hard work and determination, I have been honored to collaborate, promote, and ambassador for large brands such as SEPHORA COLLECTION, EXPRESS Clothing, and Outset Daily by Scarlett Johansson, AVON Cosmetics, and plenty more. It allows me to gain experience and widen my audience while using my voice to provide products that boost self-esteem and highlight self-love.

Alright, before we go, can you talk to us a bit about how people can work with you, collaborate with you or support you?
Social Media/ Entertainment Support: By following me on Instagram and becoming a subscriber to my podcast, you are simply motivating me more than you know. When I receive honest feedback, new followers, and uplifting engagement, I remind myself that being honest, authentic, and raw to the online world is all worth it if I am making a change by doing so. At times, I can be not only a perfectionist but my biggest critic.

Freelance Work: If you are looking for a Freelancer whose focus pertains to Web Developing, Digital Creation, Copywriting, or Video Editing, and I am always willing to accept new clients and make things easier for you digitally.

Digital Marketing Work: I am always looking for brands that want to increase the visibility of their product. If you need promotional help, marketing strategies, or want me to promote your business, I would love to help with this.

As for support, you can find the brands I am working with on my Instagram link; The more you purchase from those specific links, the more discounts and deals I can offer my audience. When you shop my content, you become a very appreciated supporter.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://qqbysimone.squarespace.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alyssiasimone/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alyssiadeery
• Twitter: https://twitter.com/theguideher
• Other: https://anchor.fm/spillswithsimi