VoyagePhoenix – Phoenix http://voyagephoenix.com The best of Phoenix, Everyday! Tue, 26 Jan 2021 11:50:58 +0000 en-US hourly 1 Phoenix’s Most Inspiring Stories http://voyagephoenix.com/phoenixs-inspiring-stories/ http://voyagephoenix.com/phoenixs-inspiring-stories/#comments Wed, 20 Jan 2021 04:00:55 +0000 http://voyagephoenix.com/?p=2856 Every neighborhood from Phoenix to Scottsdale to Tempe has its own vibe, style, culture and history, but what consistently amazes us is not what differentiates the various neighborhoods but rather what they all have in common. We’ve been blown away by how many creative and talented people call the Greater Phoenix area home. Check out some […]

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Every neighborhood from Phoenix to Scottsdale to Tempe has its own vibe, style, culture and history, but what consistently amazes us is not what differentiates the various neighborhoods but rather what they all have in common. We’ve been blown away by how many creative and talented people call the Greater Phoenix area home. Check out some of the inspiring stories we’ve discovered throughout Phoenix, Scottsdale, Tempe and the surrounding areas.

Casa Grande

Chandler

Gilbert

Glendale

Maricopa

Mesa

Peoria

Phoenix

San Tan Valley

Scottsdale

Surprise

Tempe

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Perspective & Advice for Those Facing Insurmountable Odds http://voyagephoenix.com/perspective-advice-facing-insurmountable-odds-2/ http://voyagephoenix.com/perspective-advice-facing-insurmountable-odds-2/#comments Tue, 10 Mar 2020 01:00:33 +0000 http://voyagephoenix.com/?p=69461 Throughout our journey with Voyage, the one thing we have learned over and over is that hidden within every challenge is a blessing or opportunity. It’s up to us to determine whether a challenge we face will be a step back or the catalyst for a step forward. We had the honor of connecting with […]

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Throughout our journey with Voyage, the one thing we have learned over and over is that hidden within every challenge is a blessing or opportunity. It’s up to us to determine whether a challenge we face will be a step back or the catalyst for a step forward.

We had the honor of connecting with some of the city’s brightest leaders and role models and we asked them our question of the month: What is the best advice you have for someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds.

Below, you’ll find their advice and links and other info so you can learn more about them, their work and how to connect with them. We’ll be interviewing many of these amazing individuals in the coming weeks, stay tuned.

Sara Snyder | MBA grad turned SAHM of 3 littles, working from wifi sharing my love for non-toxic, anti-aging beauty products

My advice is two-fold:
1) Find someone you can relate to, who has walked the walk, has achieved what you are looking to do and connect with them. Meet them for coffee, lunch, a glass of wine, etc. I have found having a mentor in all aspects of life is only beneficial. Before moving to Phoenix to pursue an MBA from Thunderbird School of Global Management, I worked at Tiffany & Co. in NYC doing PR/marketing. I was fortunate enough to have some fantastic mentors that helped me grow, learn and develop skills I didn’t know I had! Sometimes other people see your talent before you can see it in yourself so surround yourself with people who inspire you to be more.

2) Break up your BIG goal into smaller ones. Write out your plan, what you are going to achieve in X amount of time. And then give yourself small goals to hit along the way. It’s less daunting to look at things in smaller pieces. Then you can celebrate the small wins along the way! Rome wasn’t built in a day…consistency and tenacity are key.

Instagram: @saradsnyder
Website: hairquiz.monatglobal.com/sarasnyder

Courtney Holley & Lauren Klesser | Food Lovers

We like to remember it’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey. Yes, it’s good to have goals, but sometimes those goals may take you in a different direction that isn’t the path you intended on. When life obstacles begin to accumulate and you feel as if you’re not good enough or you don’t know enough, it’s good to take a step back, refocus and recognize that you are good enough and you’re the only thing holding yourself from succeeding. Remind yourself to enjoy the journey, the small accomplishments that lead to bigger wins, and the food that you ate along the way!

Website: sicksnacksaz.com
Instagram: @sicksnacksaz
Facebook: @Sick-Snacks-AZ

Monique Rachelle  | Blogger and Recipe Developer

When the odds feel insurmountable take a deep breath and approach the situation one step or small task at a time. Remember what you are trying to achieve and stay positive. It’s amazing what we can accomplish when we approach a situation with positivity and a can do attitude. An extra large matcha latte may also put a little pep in your step to get the job done!

Website: feeninforgreens.com
Instagram: @feeninforgreens
Facebook: @feeninforgreens
Twitter: @feeninforgreens

Raylee Steward | Holistic Nutrition Practitioner and Holistic Social Media influencer

Let me preface my answer by a short explanation of what has changed in my life within the last 3 years. My longtime boyfriend joined the Marine Corps and I decided to train for a bikini competition which let to an onset of an eating disorder and body dysmorphia. I decided to quit my current schooling and enroll in a Holistic Nutrition Program to leach myself and others to heal from diet mentality. I changed my whole life to minimalism. Me and my boyfriend got engaged and I only saw him 15 days (out of 367) during the engagement and as soon as we got married, two days later he was deployed for around 7 months. Oh yeah, and I just turned 20.

While kids my age are getting drunk and hanging out with friends. I am creating whole food recipes to share with my followers on Instagram and supporting a Marine long distance. The truth is, I have learned a lot. I have learned to be grateful for everything, even when it feels like there is nothing to be grateful for. I have learned that true friends (and being a true friend) is not about showing up when it’s convenient, but when it’s not. I have learned to not sweat the small stuff and to be mindful about the things you do stress over. However, I don’t think those are the most important lessons. To me, the most important lesson I have learned isn’t a lesson at all, it is a way to apply the lesson.

The most important part of my journey and what I have learned the most has been having an established morning and nightly routine. I usually wake up around 5 am and take 30 minutes- 2 hours to wake up. I do yoga, transcendental meditation, I journal and read, I sip slow on my ginger tea and I have a portion of the morning without my phone. At night I work out, dance in my underwear, take a shower in cold water, moisturize, turn off my phone, read and bullet journal. When I feel alone, sad, unmotivated, depressed, or anxious the thing that keeps me going is that I can’t wait to wake up and have the morning to myself. Having a morning routine has made me happier and more productive and having a nightly routine has made me mentally stable and healthier as I combat all the changes. The days I don’t have my morning or nightly routine I feel scatterbrained, foggy and I tend to focus on all the things that are tough or that are negative. When you start your day with gratitude and being completely present, it easier to carry that energy through the rest of the day. Although I have learned a lot, I don’t think I would have been able to apply the lessons and feel as confident and as happy as I am right now if I didn’t have a morning and nightly routine.

Instagram: @_radiant_ray_
YouTube: Radiant Ray

Danielle O’Connell | realtor | project manager | *cool* mom

Trust. My experience is that it all boils down to trusting yourself. Whether facing a career change, financial decision, or relationship challenge, your biggest asset and resource is yourself. Figuring out how to show up for yourself authentically takes intention and commitment, but once you navigate that piece, you hold the answers to your universe. The greatest gift I’ve ever known is a mentorship (and subsequent life experiences) that led me back to myself. I always had all the answers I ever needed, I was just looking outside towards work, relationships, success. We each have the ability to be the biggest and brightest creator we’ve ever known.

Instagram: @danielleoconnellaz
@straightupagent
Facebook: @daniellesuzanneoconnell

Byron Cline | Furniture Designer

The best advise I have for someone who is facing insurmountable odds would be to just keep working. Don’t give in to paralysis from over analysis. Doing something is better than nothing. Start by tackling small objectives – completing several small tasks will lead to completing important milestones – a few completed milestones will get you to where you want to be.

Website: umamidesigns.com

Krissie Young | Interior Designer and GoGo (Grandma to Cruz, age 2)

I’ve learned the only way to climb a mountain is one step at a time. It’s overwhelming to face a huge challenge if you try to tackle it all at once. Just do the first wise thing, then the next wise thing, and keep at it. How do you know what the wise thing is? Seek advice from those who have climbed that mountain before you.

Website: krissieyoungdesign.com
Instagram: @krissieyoungdesign
Pinterest: @krissiebe

Shawn Stone CSCS, TPI, FMS, K-VEST | Sports Fitness Trainer

Photo credit – Pine Canyon Country Club Photo Caption – Digging deep in the hips today. Sliding in your swing? Tight hips could be a reason. Foam Rolling is a great way to loosen them up.

Start somewhere! Get the ball rolling and don’t wait for someone else to give you the go ahead.

Website: foundationfitnessllc.com
Instagram: @FoundationFitness

Summar Lababidi | Artist

Just keep working on things, and push to get your work out there. Whatever it may be, Music/Painting/Creating. Fliers, Stickers, Contact shops and venues and don’t be afraid. It’s all needed exercise, people are just people. The more you work on things the more your mind will do the work for you. Progression is hard to see but every step teaches you and moves you closer.

Website: summarlababidi.bigcartel.com
Instagram: @summarlababidi
Facebook: @summarlababidiart

Katlyn Bailey | Stay at home mom & Content creator

When facing challenging circumstances, my best advice for someone would be to have a positive mentality and encircle yourself with encouraging people. Sounds cliche, I know, but having a positive attitude really does help. Slow down and understand that some aspects in life take time to accomplish, so just begin with minor steps to get to the ultimate goal you’re striving to achieve.

Instagram: @katlynleebailey

Dakota Morgan | Actor | Comic and Film Writer | Podcaster | Effects artist

The best thing to do is surround yourself with people who you support and support you but also be sure to take a break and relax with those people to collect your thoughts. Breaks are important for creativity and health.

Instagram: @dakota_morgan97
Twitter: @dakotamorgan3

Michael Robinson and Jennifer Rellora | founders and owners of Steep Tea Company

Photo credit: @alexgharfeh

Facing insurmountable odds in inevitable in all aspects of life, especially in business. Our advice to those dealing with challenging obstacles is to face matters head on and take action without fear. Spending time doubting or worrying takes away from the focus of moving onward. Remember that all steps forward are steps in the right direction even if the results may not be seen immediately. Taking it day by day makes even the most difficult tasks doable. Being consistent in your craft and flexible to the unexpected also allows great possibilities to fall into your lap. Be patient with the process and fall in love with the journey.

Website: steepteacompany.com
Facebook: @steepteacompany
Instagram: @steepteacompany

Kathy Rehling | Realtor at North&Co.

Photo Cred – Andrea Larson

My advice for someone who feels like you are facing insurmountable odds is to start by reflecting on why you feel they are insurmountable. You may have to shift your mindset so that you are 100% certain you are not going to fail. Once that is set in place, you can pretty much do anything!

Next, make a plan and stick to it. Break your plan into small pieces and just do it! It’s important to be consistent yet flexible. Be sure to celebrate your successes and learn from your stumbles. Having a sense of humor and a little humility will help along the way.

Finally, make sure you have defined what defeating the odds means to you. Your authenticity will shine through when you have met those goals and can honestly say “I beat the odds!”

Instagram: @Kathy.Rehling
Website: northandco.com/our-professionals/kathy-rehling

Abby Ahyong | outdoor enthusiast | Filipino American, and future Family Medicine physician

The most important lesson I’ve learned in my life journey so far is that we are all on our own unique, individual path. Sometimes we try to plan and organize our life based on what we hope, but it does not always happen they way we envision. It’s important to remain steadfast, persevere through the obstacles, and continue towards your goal. Try not to focus on the setbacks but rather learn from the challenges and use them to motivate and propel you forward. Lean on others for support, especially your friends and family. Sometimes it may mean taking a step back to reflect or changing directions, but you are capable of anything you set your mind and heart on.

Instagram: @trvlinga

Matthew Bernier | Chief Smile Maker at Flashbulb Memories Photo Booth | Flashbulb Memories Photo Booth | Arizona’s OG Glam Booth

Don’t discredit the value you have to offer. Charge what you believe you’re worth and find ways to communicate that worth to your clients.

Website: flashbulbphotobooth.com/glam-photo-booth
Facebook: @FlashBulbMemoriesPhotobooth
Instagram: @fbmphotobooth

Krystle Messano | Owner & Head Baker of Funshine Bakery, Allergy Friendly Sweet Treats

I feel like whether personally or professionally we have all been in a situation where there is seemingly no light at the end of the tunnel. Good or bad odds, every challenge can be used as some form of learning experience. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone and if you are facing insurmountable odds, I would encourage you not to give up.

Long odds were meant to be achieved, so ask yourself why can’t you be the one to rewrite history.

The best advice I have received about overcoming an impossible challenge is to take it one day at a time. While at times that is something much easier said than done. You can only control your own behavior and focusing on the things that are within your control in that moment in that day is the best way to keep pushing through. Some days will be good, and some will be awful but if you are passionate and keep making movements towards your goals then one day you will get there.

Website: funshinebakery.com
Facebook: @FunshineBakery
Instagram: @funshine_bakery

Kim Pinzini  | Owner | Manager | Trainer at Jabz Boxing North Scottsdale, at Pinnacle Peak

Set your goals to beat those odds.  Make a plan (reachable actions), take those actions, and never quit.  The word “Can’t” should not be in your vocabulary.  It doesn’t exist at Jabz Boxing.  There is always a way if you have the will and never give up.  You may fail horribly, but with each failure, you will learn a lesson and get that much closer to your goals.

Website: jabzboxing.com/pinnaclepeakgiveitashot.us

Caitlyn Boardman | Hiker | Fitness Enthusiast

The best advice I have for someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds is to keep pushing forward no matter how hard it is. It may feel like you can’t get through whatever it is, but you’ve got to keep fighting because you don’t want to give up and wake up in a few years and wonder if your life would’ve been different if you would’ve tried harder or not given up at the moment. Life is hard and you will have days where it feels like nothing is possible but there are also going to be days that are so beautiful, you’ll forget all about those tough days and remember that’s why you keep fighting.

Instagram- @caitlynbayybee
Facebook- Caitlyn Boardman

Leander Begay | Artist

“Slow growth is fast growth, go at your own speed, your race is with no one but yourself  and chip away at the odds stacked against you at your own pace.”

Website: deadpawnskateboards.com
Facebook: @dpskateboards
Instagram: @deadpawnskateboards

Tyler Morian and Kyle Narducci | Co-Founders of Motion Tactic

We’ve found it helpful to break something up into pieces and to create a roadmap for where you want to be over time. When facing insurmountable odds, nothing is solved overnight so it’s important to reduce your anxiety level by creating goals and tasks whether that be monthly, quarterly, or annually to get where you want to be. We practice this at Motion Tactic through a set of metrics that help guide us towards our growth objectives.

Website: motiontactic.com

Jenn Neal | Intuitive Coach & Shadow Work Practitioner

I would start by asking them some questions, and I would encourage them to take a little journey through their shadows and beliefs.

In my experience, so many of us subscribe to many limiting beliefs throughout our life without even realizing it. These beliefs can be handed down along the family line, picked up from society, or may have been created based off bad or traumatic experiences.

What if those beliefs could be re-created? What if we could clear out the stored emotions, make some space for ourselves, and what if things became easier? What if in doing that, we start to see potential and opportunity, instead of limits and road blocks? What more could we create if we made sure to look at obstacles at all angles, rather than from a limited view point, and we instead start asking what else is possible?

What if we had the empowerment to create new beliefs, to manifest some new opportunity or assistance, and the thing that seemed impossible days ago, suddenly became fluid and easy to overcome?
I have witnessed so many amazing and miraculous shifts begin to take place once someone starts going through their shadow work, their beliefs, and their emotional healing.

That feeling of “this is impossible” used to be very prevalent in my own life, but once I went through my own healing journey, I began to see more potential, opportunity, and magic all the time.

Facebook: @TheWaywardWitchCo
Website: waywardwitch.mykajabi.com
Instagram: @waywardwitchcompany

Édgar Angel Campos | Owner of VintageNewSkool

The most important lesson we’ve learned throughout this journey is to not give up on your goals/dreams. The reason why we say this is because we have come a long way within the last 2 years of starting Vintage New Skool. We wouldn’t be where we are now if we had given up. There were plenty of times when we felt as if we had failed. But things take time and success doesn’t happen over night. Along the way we’ve established great friendships and networked with others who share the same passion in the vintage/sneaker culture.

With that being said we encourage anyone who has a dream to go out and chase it. The only limitations are the ones you place upon yourself.

Instagram: @p/B8g8Wo1l_2A
Deepop: depop.com/vintagenewskool

Alexander Catedral | Videographer | Photographer | Hip Hop Artist

The most important lesson I have learned in my journey is not to forget what is most important. In my pursuit of dreams, art, passions, and goals it is easy to forget why I do it. People are what is most important to me. I have the belief that it is people over art, because people are the substance of art. While pursuing my dreams and passions, I never want to be too busy for the people that matter to me. Those are the people that help fuel me and fuel my art. I have learned not to despise or forget where I come from, but embrace it. When I protect my heart, I protect my art. There is a delicate balance and constant tension between allowing people to inspire my art vs. people defining my art. Finding that balance is important. Learning to allow people to inspire my art, but realizing it’s me who defines it has been huge in my personal journey.

Website: alexandercatedral.com
Instagram: @alexandercatedral or @justaplanekid
Facebook: @Catedralography
Viewbug: viewbug.com/member/alexandercatedral

Orlando Espino | Health Educator & Portrait/Street Photographer

That’s a tough question. I guess I would look at my experience and life and see what has worked for me.

I was a biology teacher for a few years and as a biologist I know that part of dealing with pressure, anxiety, etc. is physical. So as simple as it sounds, part of what helps is to take a deep breath and simply try your best against those odds. As humans there is only so much we can do and there are things out of our control. Often, feelings of anxiousness, being overwhelmed, and stress cloud our thinking and judgment but once we take a deep breath and break it down into what I can control and what I cannot control, then what once felt insurmountable feels manageable. Once we can understand that, on an individual level, there are certain things we cannot control, then we can take a step back, look at what things are in our control and focus doing those things to the best of our abilities.

On a personal level, I’m honestly still learning and doing some inner work on how I can best deal with problems that seem insurmountable or when a situation or goal just seems out of reach. Just trying to find ways to develop my personal resilience and growth. As I look at some of the toughest moments in my life, like my mom passing away when I was 8 years old, I think I leaned heavily on loved ones that I trusted to talk things through and just a lot of self reflection and introspection. Losing my mom was one of the first times where I felt like I was facing something that I could not get over. I was devastated and didn’t know how to process my mother’s death at that age and honestly I’m still healing from that traumatic event. My life could have taken a turn for the worst. I could have lashed out and channeled my anger by making bad choices to try and cope with my mother’s death. Or I could use my mother’s passing as motivation to make her proud by trying to make a positive impact in this world. To leave it in a better place then when I entered it–which is what I chose to do. My mother’s passing was out of my control and I felt like I could not move on, but I’ve been able to do the work of moving on by sharing my thoughts and feelings with loved ones and taking the time to dig deep in myself. So the advice I would give that works for me is to don’t be afraid to ask your loved ones for help or just a caring ear to listen to you and to take the time for focused self-reflection and introspection.

On a societal level, I’ve definitely felt like I’ve faced insurmountable odds. Growing up in a working class Mexican immigrant in America comes with obstacles.. At this point, we understand that in America your zip code and your race/ethnicity are factors that play a major role in predicting your life outcomes. When my family and I moved from Gallup, New Mexico to Phoenix during middle school, we were starting from scratch. From an economic standpoint, finding economic stability was hard and that meant both parents working a lot (sometimes multiple jobs at once); it meant constantly moving and living paycheck to paycheck.

From an education standpoint, the odds were against me. During my training as a teacher, I remember learning that only 6% of Latinos who come from low-income neighborhoods graduate college. I remember this vividly because I thought, “ I am one of the 6% that made it out.” Initially, I felt proud of myself, but, over the years, I’ve come to find that statistic disturbing and heartbreaking. It means the system is rigged. It’s not set up in a fair way. And what I’ve decided to do to overcome those odds that seem insurmountable is to try to be an active participant in society by voting and dedicating my work and my art to addressing these social injustices. Ultimately, just disregard the things in your life that are out of your control and focus on giving your all to the things in your life that are manageable.

Instagram: @Fotos.al.barbon
Website: orlandoespinooe.wixsite.com/fabfotos

Christopher Burgus | Local Adventurer & Entrepreneur

Anything that stands in your way, you have the power to overcome. Life may be getting you down, a broken relationship, maybe even a broken home, a case of bad health or even a terrible job situation. To be honest, it’s all in the frame of mind. You can sit and dwell on the obstacles life brings or you and rise up against adversity and live life to the fullest. The choice is yours!

Instagram: @alurgus_602

Ashley Moran | aesthetic blogger

I have always found that when I am facing something I can’t seem to get through I try my hardest to surround myself with positivity.

Having a good outlook, being optimistic and having people who believe in your soul will take you much farther than dwelling on the stress of a situation.

Self care is something that I’ve had to learn how to do. Yoga, therapy, etc. these things help me stay calm and focused on myself and have a more positive outlook on life itself.

I wouldn’t be where I am today without a support system and keeping the people in my life who help me learn to be the best version of myself. Also taking every good day and every bad day, to ask myself “what lesson did I learn today,” instead of “why did this happen?

Instagram: @ashleysaesthetics_

Theresa Green | portrait photographer

When someone feels like they are against all the odds, I would encourage
them not to give up. Start making a plan, consult experts, read books,
and take the challenge one step at a time.

 

Website: theresagreenphotography.com
Instagram: @theresagreenphotography

 

 

 

Christopher Blank | Visual Artist

Isaiah Romero (Instagram – @Isaiah__ Romero)

Nothing in this world comes with ease.However, if you have the motivation and focus you can achieve every goal you set for yourself. Always remember life is not a movie, its a simulation. ✪

 

Instagram: @Cuteboyychris

 

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What’s the Most Important Lesson You’ve Learned Along Your Journey? http://voyagephoenix.com/whats-important-lesson-youve-learned-along-journey/ http://voyagephoenix.com/whats-important-lesson-youve-learned-along-journey/#respond Sun, 01 Mar 2020 01:00:35 +0000 http://voyagephoenix.com/?p=91755 Every twist in our story, challenge we face, and obstacle we overcome is an important part of our story.  These difficulties make us stronger and wiser and prepare us for what’s ahead.  As we grow and succeed we may imagine that soon the challenges will fade away, but in our conversations with business owners, artists, […]

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Every twist in our story, challenge we face, and obstacle we overcome is an important part of our story.  These difficulties make us stronger and wiser and prepare us for what’s ahead.  As we grow and succeed we may imagine that soon the challenges will fade away, but in our conversations with business owners, artists, creatives, academics, and others we have learned that the most common experience is that challenges never go away – instead they get more complex as we grow and succeed.  Our ability to to thrive therefore depends heavily on our ability to learn from our experiences and so we are asking some of the city’s best and brightest: What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned along your journey?

Bree Fillion | Professional Thrifter and Part Time Clothing Reseller

The most important lesson I’ve learned is to stay true to yourself and your brand. At the beginning of my journey, I got so caught up mimicking the actions of other resellers. I sourced the same clothing brands, thinking I would have the same success. Not only did this not move the needle forward in my business, it also didn’t excite and energize me. I learned over time that this isn’t someone else’s business, it’s my own. If I wanted to find success and my voice within the community, I had to do it on my own terms. Now, I source and sell pieces that fit into my own personal brand and style, not someone else’s.

thatgirlthrifts.com
@thatgirlthrifts

Layla Ray | Moto athlete  | Fitness Coach

It only takes one person to believe in you to achieve success.  Commit everyday even on the days you want to give up.

801motoindustries.com
@801.moto.chic
Youtube: 801 moto chic

Benjamin Irons | Sound Healing Artist

Maria Lopez

The most important lesson I’ve learned on my journey so far is that just because something doesn’t work out the way you planned does not mean that you failed. Chances are something better is being created for you. Be patient, stay the course.

zenwithben.me
@zenwithben
@zenwben

Stephanie Kelly | Blogger and Recruiter

I think the most important lesson I’ve learned – and this applies to both my personal and professional life – is that not everyone is going to like you, and that’s GREAT! I used to think it was just something you’d have to accept when you’re in any sort of public work, but I’ve come to realize that not being everyone’s cup of tea just makes the connections you have more meaningful. I believe this applies whether you’re making friends, nailing that job interview, or posting content you’re proud of.

@theirishsummer
theirishsummer.com

Bentley Siimone | Boutique Owner and Content Creator

The most important lesson, we must all take heed to, is to protect our hearts. When it comes to success the rent is due daily. No matter how much you’ve attained a particular lifestyle, your heart and your thrive will always be on the front line. The passion in your heart is what molds your craft. Always love yourself enough to accomplish being you. Allow passion to lead and love will follow. Many blessings to you all. Thank you for having me.

Casselenia.Co
@Bentley_Siimone

 

Nikoleta Krstic | Programmer

Having friends is nice but what ever you do wrong in your life your family will always have your back, not your friends.

@nicolettakrstic
youtube.com/channel/UCn4VLmYBDaHT5-RG0Fb1BOA

Van Thu Nguyen aka Van Revival | Brand Strategist | Biohacker, & Chief Visionary Officer

Dorothee Brand

The most important lesson I’ve learned in my journey so far is how vital it is to cultivate resilience and if along the road you come across trauma, create an environment that promotes post-traumatic growth and if you have PTSD learn how to manage it to foster high performance in the workplace, for yourself and your employees.

In business, there will be failures. It is whether or not you end up failing forward or leading your business to absolute failure. It’s easy to let things outside of work, such as personal issues that can hinder your ability to make great decisions or distract you from your business. According to the National Council of Behavioral Health, 70% of adults in the United States have experienced trauma at least once and over 90% of public behavioral health clients. Your ability to manage extreme stress will impact your overall happiness, health, and how well you show up for your stakeholders.

One of the best ways you can prepare yourself and mitigate the risk of failure is to develop resilience. In 2019, AZ Business Magazine ranks Arizona as the fifth-best state to launch a startup with a business survival rate of 49.10%.

Resiliency is our ability to adapt and recover from stressors. Resilient people find ways to turn adversity into opportunities to grow from rather than dwell on mistakes so they can move forward.

It is made of five pillars: self-awareness, positive relationships, self-care, mindfulness & purpose.

There is a toughness in resilient people. They can handle the reality of loss, success, heartbreak, failure, and challenges like a warrior. They can focus on solving problems and will rise in the face adversity rather than break. Whatever their pursuit may be, they give their full attention and nothing less. They are committed to achieving goals, but flexible enough to adapt when things don’t go according to plan. In the midst of hardship, my cousin, a businessman, said to me, “adapt or perish.” A part of H.G. Wells’ quote. My commitment to reinvention is what gave rise to my personal brand Van Revival. Reinvention is a survival skill to help you adapt to change. It’s a commitment I made to myself, to growth and development, so I can continue to build a better version of myself and really push the boundaries to see how far I can go.

The traits of emotionally resilient people are extremely useful in business.

They maintain a positive outlook even when times are tough.

They have the desire to achieve solid goals.

They take responsibility.

They prioritize well.

They are happy for others’ success and tend to surround themselves with people more successful than themselves. Inspired from within and inspiring others.

They are goal-oriented and competitive with themselves.

They are visionaries.

They maintain healthy relationships.

They are grateful and understand success is a privilege.

They don’t view themselves as victims and focus on what they have control over and on things that make the most impact.

If you’ve experienced trauma, in order to not just “survive” but thrive, learning how to facilitate healing and get to post-traumatic growth is vital to removing emotional blocks that are in the way of your success. Untreated PTSD can put someone in analysis paralysis, which in the long run will lead to the death of your business. Something I previously experienced.

Some great ways to build resilience

1. Practice cognitive restructuring to respond well to negative situations.

2. Get quality sleep, eat foods that help you function at your best, and functional movement exercises. That way your body can cope better during stressful times and help you make better choices.

3. Build self-love and self-confidence

4. Choose to respond in a calm logical manner to crises.
5. Learn how to set and achieve goals that align with your values

6. Be flexible. Expect the unexpected

Some ways to facilitate post-traumatic growth

1. SMART (Stress Management and Resiliency Training) or MBSR (Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction)

2. Reality Therapy

3. Accelerated Resolution therapy

4. Body-Mind Psychotherapy

VanRevival.com
RevivalYou.com
@VanRevival
@VanRevival
@VanRevival
LinkedIn: @VanRevival

Carlos Vazquez | Tattoo and pencil artist

So far in my tattoo/life journey, I’ve learned to be patient. I’m 23 now and I started tattooing when I was 15, so roughly 8 years later I’m now seeing the fruits of my labor blossom. I can only speak from my personal experience of wanting my craft to be the highest quality, whether it were my drawings or tattoos but in the beginning it seemed that the things I was trying to accomplish were almost impossible. I wanted clients, recognition, and to be successful in a field that required having skill in not only art and tattooing but in communication as well. All were skills that take a lot of time in acquiring. Luckily, I had lots of positive individuals cross my path and give me the little pushes and words of encouragement I needed to keep moving forward. I pat myself on the back every once in a while to thank myself for not giving up on my journey despite the moments of hardship I went through because “life” does happen and it doesn’t care how passionate you are about your craft or where you are in life. Not to veer off too much but another very Important lesson Ive learned is not to compare myself or my career to anyone else’s. We are now living in a time where social media tends to set the standards on what is socially acceptable, which can sometimes have an impact on how you view yourself. I’ve learned to remember that not one person is the same, we all learn and grow at different paces, whether it be in life or the craft you’re pursuing. And that is perfectly okay. Everyone makes mistakes but most people don’t post those things on social media so DON’T BEAT YOURSELF UP. Just keep moving forward.

@cv_ink

Dr. Vernet A. Joseph – Productivity Strategist | Ambassador | Veteran | Speaker

The most important lesson that I have learned along my journey is to never take things for granted and appreciate the relationships that you have. In life, all you have are unique opportunities for growth, but you must acknowledge and take advantage of them. Nothing is impossible unless you stop trying to achieve it. I have been blessed to have many successful roles in my life from serving my country on and off the battlefield as a military officer, to being a serial entrepreneur in multiple industries, to being an international speaker, and author of 25 books to include 5 bestsellers; and so much more. It’s an honor to live this life. I just want to say thank you to every person that I have been privileged to encounter throughout these years. Many of you will say that I have empowered, impacted inspired or motivated you but honestly, you are the ones who have blessed my life. I recognize and appreciate that relationships are the best currency in the world. My challenge to all of you who may be reading this is to live your most productive life to the fullest and on purpose.

https://livetoproduce.com/
https://www.bshaniradio.com/360-show.html
On all social media: @drvajoseph

Caylee Chinen | Yelp Employee and Founder of a sustainable swimwear line, Erme Swim

You will get out as much as you put in. Everything that you want to achieve or do takes time a patience.

Most importantly, do what you love. When you work towards something that you enjoy, you will continue to work hard and never get bored.

@ermeswim
ermeswim.com

 

Jennifer Hernandez | Food Blogger and Photographer

I started my food blog for fun and to share my love of cooking! I had no idea there was so much information and other food blogs out there.

I’ve learned to embrace my passion for cooking and to enjoy the journey! The pictures are an added bonus… describing a photo only goes so far. I want people to feel they can literally taste how good the picture looks.

jenshighcountrykitchen.com
@JensHighCountryKitchen
@JensHighCountryKitchen

Sia Square | Baking Enthusiast | Owner

I have learned to not overwhelm myself. And to know that my only competition is myself. I don’t strive to be better than anyone but my past self. That alone could stress a person out. There are so many different bakeries out there that a person could go to, but what sets me apart from others is simple. It’s Me. No other place has me. My personality and the love that I put into my craft shows when someone tastes what I make. I’m very thankful for the small support system that I have. I don’t think I would have had the courage to even be where I am, if it weren’t for the people rooting for my success.

Emeraldsquarebakedgoods.com
@Emeraldsquarebakedgoods
@Emeraldsquarebakedgoods

Rose LeVeque | Third-Generation Functional Potter

The most important lesson I’ve learned throughout my journey so far would be to not give up. It is so difficult starting up any type of business so the best thing you can do, is to not be afraid to ask questions and really put yourself out there!

There are always times that will be harder and It would be a lot easier to go back to a 9-5 job but being able to fulfill your dreams is worth every minute of struggle to succeed.

@roselevequepottery
roselevequepottery.com

Amber Lopez | Co-founder and Creative Genius and Luis Lopez | Co-founder and Life of the Party

To have fun! When you take life too seriously, sometimes you overlook the present moment and how much fun we can have when we’re truly connecting with one another. When we do this, that’s when you start creating  memories that can be cherished forever. That is why we founded Sol Vibes Photo Booth. We wanted to give people a fun way to capture their memories!

solvibesphotobooth.com
@solvibesphotobooth

Carolina Garcia | Mother | Artist | Creator

The most important lesson I’ve learned in my journey so far is to appreciate every day here on Earth, and not take anything for granted.

@AhkniLorak 

Shelby Knoles | Interior designer and owner of Willow & Co. Interior design company

The most important thing I have learned in my journey as a designer and business owner is the importance of communication. I find it so important to be upfront, honest, and maintain a steady and constant line of communication with my clients.  I have been able to establish a friendship with my clients and attribute this success to good communication!

willowandcohome.com
@willowandcohome

 

Emily Christensen | Wife & Business Owner

Focus on the little joys and the things that bring you happiness and make sure you have gratitude for those things first. This has helped me get through difficult transitions, and hard times with ease and peace of mind.

@poff.cakes
poffcakes.biz

Jennifer Tasche | freelance makeup artist

Letting go of the past is the healthiest thing you can do for yourself. Each day is a new day to create the best version of yourself.

@makeupbyjentasche
@makeupbyjentasche

Sydney Stempfley | Owner of SOULcial Studio, a Phoenix-based social media marketing agency

Like Nike says, “Just do it.”

I’ve always wanted to start my own business. The problem was, I had no idea what to do or where to start. To put it simply, I didn’t have a plan.

I was just a girl with ideas and a dream.

I grew up a competitive gymnast, diver and cheerleader. I was always in the pursuit of perfection.

I realized that, as a new business owner, I had to push past perfection.

I had to stop obsessing over the small details for once in my life and just do it.

soulcialstudio.com/
@sydneystempfley
@soulcialstudio

Emily Caitlin Burks | Photographer | Writer | Musician, & Early Childhood Professional

That I can do as much as I think I can.

“She believed she could, so she did.”

Imagine. Bloom. Adapt.

Discover with joy, your own epic tale of strength, fight, delicate wonderings, torn yet beautiful pieces, the grounding effect of the simple things, and allowing yourself to discover the power of vulnerability. Let yourself align your life to the passion and vivaciousness that is possible when you stop working for a living, and live for your work. Pushing through the cloud of fear holding you to your “what if I fail?” self-destruct button, teaches you to keep jumping into your next chance rather than drowning in your own misperception of your worth.
DO it, scared.

Beyond your fear is opportunity to imagine that our differences are what create the tapestry of this crazy, wonderful, and when looked at closely, shared human life. Everyone has a story. Altogether, peace can first allow your inner world to gain a momentum into destiny, but it can also create a better place for all of us to live. Passion, freedom, and unconditional love make living worth the pain and process of growth and self-development.

Brad Gast said this about gritty perseverance, and not giving up your belief in better things:

No matter what happens, no matter how far you seem to be away from where you want to be, never stop believing that you will somehow make it. Have an unrelenting belief that things will work out, that the long road has a purpose, that the things that you desire may not happen today, but they will happen. Continue to persist and persevere.

As a photographer, authenticity is in everything I do. Simplicity is wrapped up in complexity, and even the most basic things in life can be discovered and rediscovered as something new. Yet often, I will find myself circling back to my roots, basic instincts, and the passions and curiosities that consistently have sparked life, clarity, and light into my individual identity. In moments of pain, quiet musings of existence, and sensorial explorations of this beautiful world we live in, our true gifts and happy journeys can be found. We often become obsessed, jealous, or shameful of our lack of perfection or equal abilities, instead of inspired or encouraged by other peoples’ visions. We forget what’s most important to us, as artists of our own lives, to create and live like human beings, all with our own giftings, abilities, treasures of the soul, insights, perspectives, failures, mistakes, and experiences that are weaved into the epic kaleidoscope that is our existence in this universe. Our modern world is consistent in blasting blame, feeling shame, and advising others instead of talking to ourselves. Our own thoughts, visions, ideas, and ways of inspiration and life process are singular to us, yet in the most raw and real US we are, we will find connection to others in ways the illusion of perfection and the walls of fear have kept us from really understanding.

Do not be afraid to be yourself, imagine the possibility that in living truthfully and adapting honestly and messily will keep you from the prison of the mundane and regret of never trying.

To me, never feeling alive and regretting the choices you never made, hurts more than failing and getting back up again to a new beginning.

Keep going ; your story isn’t over.

I finish this entry with a quote from a man with a story that helped radicalize my fierceness of identity and nonconformity to the mundane or the popular:

“The words that follow ‘I am’ follow you. Choose carefully how you describe yourself.”
– Rock Thomas

@emily_caitlin_photography
emilycaitlinphoto.wixsite.com/portfolio

Jill Maher | Nutrition and Health Coach

The most important lesson I’ve learned in my journey working with hundreds of clients is achieving one’s ultimate health/nutrition goal(s) requires a lifetime of overall consistency. Extreme/crash diets and inconsistent behavior never result in success – when we try to force ourselves to operate in the extreme, we fail. People who make the best choices possible most days, and indulge when they really want to (without beating themselves up) achieve long-term success.

jillsnutritionmission.com
@jill_maher

Ashley Chessin | Realtor and lover of all things design

Life is too short to do things that don’t fulfill us or aren’t working. Never forget that you can always make a change no matter how difficult it seems. If you’re unhappy, unappreciated, or just bored – make moves to find what moves you!

@makinghomehappenaz
makinghomehappenaz.com

Kevin & Rany Karst | Parents | Entrepreneurs and Fitness Enthusiasts

We’ve learned so many valuable lessons along the way but the lesson that stands out the most is “don’t be afraid to fail”, in fact, seek failure because that’s where all the lessons are. You often hear people say they’re afraid to fail and because of that fear most will never achieve that higher level of success. We’ve learned early on that failure was not only a necessary part of growth but also plays a huge role in success.

kapableapparel.com
@kapableapparel
@KAPABLEAPPAREL

Jessie Murphin | mother & Motherkin co-founder

The most important thing I’ve learned since starting this Phoenix motherhood community AND being a mother in general, is how important it is to have your village. It’s okay to not do it all. Especially on your own.

@jessiemurphin
@motherkinco
motherkin.co

Amber and Mark Pierce | Founders

Julius Schlosburg, @catsphotoshoot

Being a business owner is not for the faint of heart. We don’t have a pool of mentors or investors to rely on. We are our own mentors, our own investors. We’ve chosen to invest in ourselves. Our operation lies in our hands—we are the research and developers, marketers, creators, and decision makers. Through that, we’ve learned to always trust our instincts, as they’ve never failed us.

We’ve also learned there is a fine line between hard work and workaholism. It’s all too easy to get sucked into the cycle of “After this project I’ll have time to…” But, there’s always another project. There will always be more work to be done. So we take the time to enjoy our coffee, to create for creativity’s sake, or in Mark’s case, to ride his bike in the wilderness for weeks on end. Balance is key.

bisbeesoapandsundry.com
@BisbeeSoapAndSundry
@BisbeeSoapAndSundry

Rico Lavender | Designer and Entrepreneur

I’ve learned that you cannot get far without good people alongside you. If there was anything that stuck with me early in my career it was that it is important to foster good relationships with people in your industry because at some point you will cross paths again and the more friends you have the more opportunities you will have because of them.

ricolavender.com
@rlmercantile

Shela Yu | Professional Relaxation Therapist & Artist

Amy Elizabeth Bruce @amylizzi

The most important lesson I have learned on this journey so far is how to take responsibility for my own happiness. We hold so much more power within our own minds and bodies than we let ourselves believe. Once I was able to break the chains that linked my happiness to other people’s opinions and ideas I was able to free myself from a lot of unnecessary misery. My life has gotten a whole lot brighter and lighter because of it, and now, my work is to help others do the same for themselves.

lazulihealing.com
@LazuliHealing 

 

Vesna Bailey | Author of the Award-winning NOTES Giftbooks Collection

I think all of life is an evolving journey defined by distinct chapters, and each chapter reveals it’s own teachings if we are paying attention. At this point in my life, I am seeing that to be clear on one’s own life convictions,  and to live by our own bottom line is like having a compass that will guide us through making good decisions and choices regardless of what surprises life may throw our way. Being aware, kind, just, and compassionate is a responsibility that belongs to each of us, especially when the circumstances may not be convenient for us at the moment; those are the moments of promise that build us individually as well as collectively to heights untold. One of the final Notes in my books reads, “You matter. It matters. Live a life that matters.” – I tried to raise my own children with this all-encompassing backdrop, and it seems that so many other mothers and fathers from all walks of life are also finding their own voice and heart in the NOTES – ultimately the NOTES are every parent’s words. I am beyond honoured and grateful for the opportunity to inspire our next generation of children, parents, and hopefully our community leaders, in this way.

Website: www.NotesBeforeYouGo.com
@notesbeforeyougo
@NotesBeforeYouGo

Maggie Norris | Owner | Chef Instructor Whisked Away Cooking School

Life Created

This is a very tough question because I have learned so many lessons along the way! I would say the most important and definitely the toughest has been learning to accept failure. Whether it is an idea that flops, a class that doesn’t fill up or a less than perfect review I have come to realize that these are just springboards to another opportunity. Don’t get me wrong, when things don’t work out it still stings, but it is easier to accept, learn and continue to move forward.

@whiskedawayaz
@WhiskedAwayUSA
whiskedaway.net

 

Bringing in 2020 with all the positive energy and dance moves!

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Our team has come up with the following: There is no denying that times will get hard and life will not go exactly as planned, however through these times it is essential to remember that we are not alone. As easy as it is to isolate yourself, if you take a moment to step back, you will find  a hand that is ready to help pick you up or someone who at the very least can understand.

@phoenix_townandcountry
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Stephanie Silva | Owner | Celebration Sweets Maker at Sweet Boutique Bakehouse

The most important thing I have learned on this journey so far is to lean in and trust my instincts, embrace challenging times as growth opportunities and appreciate the small wins!

@sweetboutiquebakeshouse
@sweetboutiquebakehouse

Johni Cesario | Brand Photographer

Denise Marie

Give myself grace.  As a business owner it is important to give yourself grace.  It is important to not be so harsh on yourself, especially when you are doing the best you can.  It’s easy to experience set-backs or bad days but the true test is how to take these days and use them as learning experiences, that matters. I try to talk to myself in a way that I would speak to my best friend. When I start speaking negative thoughts to myself I notice it becomes that much easier to experience self-doubt or self-sabotage. Even that, overtime the more critical we are to ourselves the easier it is to fuel our minds with doubt and to tear ourselves down. I remind myself to be compassionate and gentle to because it is so easy to dig a dark hole, especially as a business owner that operate independently from a team. I do the best that I can and give myself grace and ease throughout my day, because it helps me to stay on the road to success. I honor my time and stay conscious of when I need to slow down and breath.

uncoveringflora.com
@uncoveringflora

Tammy Auther | Jewelry Designer & Owner of Tammy Auther Designs

The most important lesson I’ve learned as a small business owner is perseverance!  The jewelry industry is a competitive field, so it’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day grind, or compare my business model to others, but by staying passionate about my product and interacting daily with my awesome customers helps me stay focused and appreciate the journey!

shoptammy.com
tammy@shoptammy.com
602-538-3951
@tammyautherdesigns

Brooke Samuelian | A Modern Senior Photographer

One of the things I have learned is be True to yourself.  If you are always looking around at everyone else’s success and comparing them to your faults you will never succeed.  See yourself as being successful and you will be.

brookeallisonphotography.com 
@brookeallisonphotography

Stephen Konopka | Go Getter | Dreamer | Fighter

If you were to get any advice from me which 1 would you chose to be the most important lesson for you? Maybe you can combine them? Have Fun!

1)- Show up to a shoot prepared with a positive outlook! ie: All your geer with backups! Bodies lights lenses batteries cards and or film, and most importantly,,, your SMILE!

2)- Make a plan and stick with it but at the same time be receptive! Changes may occur, stay quiet, look & listen, specially on an outdoor shoot when you have to be more concerned about lighting and composition because when outdoors these are not a certainty and change rapidly, either one will make or break the shot so timing or “planning” is everything!

Ultimately you’re the one in charge! Nobody else is pushing that shutter button but you! What your pictures turn out to look like will be the difference between professional or amiture hour. It’s up to you on how far you go and there’s always something to learn if you’re willing.

I’ve been shooting for 40, 45+ years and I’m still learning something new and looking forward to seeing how it’s done better, so it’s easier for me! I’m sorry there isn’t just 1 lesson I can give you to make “Magic” happen because I’m still learning.

TreLee | Singer | model | actress

I’ve learned that everyone has the same fears.  You can either let that fear kill your dreams or choose to overcome.  I consider myself to be a late bloomer, but I am happy about what I have been able accomplish thus far.  There have been so many things that I kept myself from doing because I was too afraid to stand out.  I will continue to move in silence with my wife by my side, still on my journey.   I have accomplished some pretty great things. My biggest accomplishment yet, my sons Marqaun and TraMar.  Love you boys!  My mom told me that there are so many things in life worth fighting for, make sure you are number 1. Thank you, mom (Faye Forrest).

“Live your life for you, and everything else will fall into place.  – Me”

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TreLeeMusic.com
TreLeeHair.com
Everywhere: @mstrelee
@officialMs.TreLee

Samantha Kade | Actress & Producer

The most important lesson I’ve learned in my journey so far is that listening to your gut is always the right answer. The soft voice in your head or that rapid flutter of emotion have your best interests in mind. Listen to them. The second lesson is take the time to reflect and marvel on where you are in life and what you’ve accomplished. Be in awe of yourself for a minute. Enjoy a little dance of joy that your hard work is paying off even if it doesn’t always seem that way. You probably are someone’s success story and don’t even know it. If I may, just one more nugget of wisdom, don’t give all your energy to people who give you nothing in return. Please. You will thank me one day.

imdb.me/samanthakade
@samanthakade

Dr. Vernet A. Joseph | Productivity Strategist | Ambassador | Veteran | Speaker

The most important lesson that I have learned along my journey is to never take things for granted and appreciate the relationships that you have. In life, all you have are unique opportunities for growth, but you must acknowledge and take advantage of them. Nothing is impossible unless you stop trying to achieve it. I have been blessed to have many successful roles in my life from serving my country on and off the battlefield as a military officer, to being a serial entrepreneur in multiple industries, to being an international speaker, and author of 25 books to include 5 bestsellers; and so much more. It’s an honor to live this life. I just want to say thank you to every person that I have been privileged to encounter throughout these years. Many of you will say that I have empowered, impacted inspired or motivated you but honestly, you are the ones who have blessed my life. I recognize and appreciate that relationships are the best currency in the world. My challenge to all of you who may be reading this is to live your most productive life to the fullest and on purpose.

livetoproduce.com
@drvajoseph
@drvajoseph
@drvajoseph
bshaniradio.com/360-show.html

Isai Guerrero | Mortgage Broker and Family Man

Photo credits: my 8 year old daughter

I recently made the transition from a Big Box Lender to a Mortgage Broker because I am able to help my clients purchasing or refinancing a home with better pricing, more loan options, easier qualifications, and all of this gives me the time to serve the local community. The most important lesson that I have learned during this time is that journeys cannot be done alone. They should be done with a small group of role models, mentors, and people who share similar values. By surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals, one has the ability to scale, develop, and have a good time while doing so. The journey then becomes a passion and passion always leads to success. For anyone who is having trouble locating role models, I would start by identifying the places/companies that they admire and share similar values, following them and their leaders, and reaching out to them proactively and eventually ask them if they have time to share their stories with you (perhaps over coffee). Be curious and most importantly ask them how you can give back to them – even if its just sharing their content.

@el.broker
handshakehomeloans.com

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Throughout our journey with Voyage, the one thing we have learned over and over is that hidden within every challenge is a blessing or opportunity. It’s up to us to determine whether a challenge we face will be a step back or the catalyst for a step forward.

We had the honor of connecting with some of the city’s brightest leaders and role models and we asked them our question of the month: What is the best advice you have for someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds.

Below, you’ll find their advice and links and other info so you can learn more about them, their work and how to connect with them. We’ll be interviewing many of these amazing individuals in the coming weeks, stay tuned.

Rachel Albrecht | wedding photographer

“Just keep swimming.”

Website: rachelnphoto.com
Instagram: @rachelnoelphoto

Victoria Garcia | Barbertologist

Be patient and be open minded. You have to be patient when it comes to the educational process because once you finish beauty school you can only go up from there. You don’t know everything there is to know because there’s so much in the industry to do. Therefore the continued education is huge, there are so many other classes offered outside of beauty school to attend to be so much better. There’s also the part of being patient with your clients to achieve a look. Many people don’t know exactly what they’re desired look is because they use pictures of other people who do not look anything like them or their hair texture isn’t the same or even the color isn’t achievable. As for being open minded, be creative. You are allowed to be experimental within the means of your client and skill level. There are so many different techniques you can use to achieve an end look. With anything you do, the more you do it the better you get.

Instagram: @_vbeautyyy

Ashley Warrick w/ Ahsoka Tano| Dog Mom and Local Craft Enthusiast

My advice for someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds would be to SLOW DOWN and take a moment to look around you. See all the beauty with life. Think positively. Right at that moment whatever you are facing might be too big but look at all the people who have overcame their odds. You will realize your mountain is just a mole hill. Push yourself for greatness because it can be achieved!

Instagram: @buggwithabeer

AZBACKPACK

This is such a heavy topic for me because I’ve literally spent My whole life doubting my skills and abilities to achieve a greater success in anything I did. When I was 16 I was a big time skateboarder got sponsored traveled to different skate competitions and demos, signed autographs did it all! But deep down inside I didn’t feel like I was good enough. In 2010 I was a junior at South Mountain High School I joined the wrestling team for the first time. Excelled In all my matches even qualified for state Had a great year. Senior year came along and was voted to be team captain…. but yet I still did not feel like I was good enough, I had such a low self of steam and alot of self doubt that its been tough to succeed! UP UNTIL NOW! I woke up one morning and was sick and tired of these Negative thoughts and degrading myself for absolutely no reason So I told myself that
I AM GREAT!
I AM CONFIDENT!
I AM THE BEST!
I AM GOING TO SUCCEED IN LIFE!
IM NOT LAZY
I CAN DO ANYTHING IF I PUT MY MIND TO IT!

So thats what I did and I wake up with that same mindset every single day! Even if Im sick, heart broken, exhausted, weak, you name it! I still wake up and Get IT DONE!

So that being said I feel the best way to overcome insurmountable odds or any self doubt is to build your self appreciation and self confidence and really strive to do your very best at all times and I guarantee you that those doubt and those thoughts of you never overcoming anything will turn into check marks on your TODO LISTS!!! 🙏

Youtube: youtu.be/a79stl1SPDE

Ashley Rostro | Nanny & full time momma

To someone facing insurmountable odds I would first tell them to you are not the first to feel the world is against you, you are not the first to feel like everything is going wrong. Also unfortunately it won’t be the last time you feel that way. You need to clear your mind of all the negative trash and filling it back up with optimism. Life will always bring the good and the bad, and when you feel it’s only bringing the bad you need to take a step back appreciate who you are and the things you have accomplished. Try to not let the negativity of the situation or the world bring you down. Relax, take a deep breath, celebrate who you are and just do the next right thing.

Instagram: @hooping_siren_

Kevin Nielsen | IT Professional | Actor | Entrepreneur

Be careful of the story you tell yourself ABOUT yourself. It’s not what other people say that matters, it’s what you say about you that threatens your destiny! If you want something, you have to tell yourself it’s achievable. If you don’t have that belief, find someone who can believe in you until you have enough belief in yourself. When I first decided I wanted to become an IT professional, I had no college degree, I just got fired from a job in customer service, and I used my tax return to pay bills for a couple months so I could learn to code. No one supported that decision, my parents we’re telling me to get a job because they were scared, my girlfriend and I broke up, and I had no social life for 3 months. Now, over 2 years later I make 4 times the salary of my customer service job and can afford to pursue my dream to become an actor. My story is unique to me, but sometimes taking the same path as everyone else isn’t what YOU need to do either. Get creative, ask for help, and believe everything will work out in the end; You got this!!!

Instagram: @nielseninternational
Website: elitesocialgrowth.com

Ryan McGinnis | Brand Ambassador

Ryan McGinnis

Take a deep breath, and break the issue down into smaller, obtainable objectives…

Instagram: @ODVimports

 

Medicated Chef

Success comes in steps. Shortcuts lead to failures. Put the work in to make it work. Do what you are passionate about and make money while you do it. Show your worth so people know what your worth.

Instagram: @medicatedchef

 

Vince Larue | Pen & ink artist and ultrarunner from France

Don’t put yourself at the center of the story, breath, slow down, keep moving/going!

Facebook: The Art of Vince Larue
Instagram: @theartofvincelarue

Neekta Hamidi | environmentalist and WEF Global Shaper

Communication is key. Learn to articulate your needs, and share them in an authentic and honest way. Communicate with those around you, and with those from different backgrounds, and built relationships early so you can seek support when you need it.

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Kimberley Cullumber-Alexander (on right) Residential & Commercial General Contractor & Twilight Modern Artist with long-time friend Michelle Smith (on left)

First and mostly importantly, I try to stay grounded in my faith because that it is where my strength comes from.

I get crystal clear on the outcome I want, visualize it happening every day and act “as if” it already happened (soooo powerful)!
I map out the major steps I need to take and I do something, however small, every single day to move the needle.

I remind myself that life’s journey is full of obstacles and setbacks and that it’s while working through these things that I reveal who I am and who I’m going to be.

I stay open to the lessons and/or blessings that inevitably and unexpectedly come out of these things. Also, I stay open to the fact that help most often comes from people and situations that God puts in my life during these times.

I think of all the great overcomers I’ve known and read about, and had any one of them given up too early, their stories would be vastly different. If you just keep getting up, you’ll cross the finish line eventually.

And lastly, use your experiences to help and bless others!

Website:  BuildnAz.com
Instagram: @Buildn.Art.Etc 
Facebook: @KimberleyArt29
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kimberley-alexander-24535112

Renzo Curay | Entrepreneur & Engineer

Alexis Curay – @DolcenaBeauty

For someone to overcome their challenges they must look at their progress and goal every single day. Climbing Mt. Everest is not a one day trip. It take years of training, preparation, and dedication. When climbing on your Mt. Everest be quick to remind yourself what the goal is and how much progress you have made. Remind yourself that it is okay to take a break, that failure is inevitable. But it’s not whether you can avoid failure but how one overcomes failure. Do not give up, you are almost there.

Website: ZionBrothers.Com

Prasanna Jennae Polite | Fitness Instructor | Influencer | Professional Dancer, and Choreographer

Dave Harden

The best advice I can give to someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds is to surround yourself with like minded friends, family, and support. Odds will forever be against you no matter how well known you are or the amount of money you may have. You have to keep pushing and remind yourself that this obstacle you’re facing is minor and can be accomplished!

Instagram: @bodybyjennae

Jonathan Yazzie | Photographer

Featured in photo is @_kristyrose Clothing/Stylist @stillshelives

The best advice I could give someone who is facing insurmountable odds is to breathe and tell yourself everything will be okay, it always will be.

Instagram: @immortalpone

Len DeCarmine | Certified Business Coach with ActionCOACH & Co-host and Creator of The Extraordinary Being Movement Podcast

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my journey is leaving the past behind!

We all in one way or another still harbor past experiences of situations that still hold us back today from finding the love of our life, being successful, trusting others, and even finding happiness. Holding on to these past experiences drains us of our true potential, it wastes our energy and serves no purpose in creating a future we deserve.

For years, I was a hostage to these emotional experiences and stories which I created about myself and others. Living in the past continuously caused me depression, fear, and anxiety. I never felt I was good enough which lead me to financial hardship, loss of friends, and people I loved.

Realizing this unhealthy way of living, I decided I would no longer allow the past to bind me. I made a choice to take action by stopping my negative way of thinking and being. I began to acknowledge my failures as learning experiences and that it was good to make mistakes. I accepted who I am, not allowing the judgments of myself and others to hold me back from loving myself.

Then I took the biggest step forward, I released the pain of the past. I reached out to friends and family to open the doors of communication to forgive and ask for forgiveness. Many were open to this idea others were still holding on to their way of being and their past.

Today I am at peace, the clearing of the past has opened new doors, new opportunities, and new relationships which I never thought would be possible. I stay focused on today, the present, for it keeps me grounded with realistic steps towards creating the life and future I’ve always desired. The thoughts of the past may still creep in but I take ownership and responsibility of my part and reflect on the lessons which I learned.

I currently have a successful coaching business and I am the co-host and creator of a podcast and online radio station call the Extraordinary Being Movement. Where we discuss various topics on personal development to help people release the chains of the past and be the extraordinary individuals they are meant to be!

Instagram: @lendecarminecoach
Website:  actioncoachofaz.com
Instagram: @extraordinarybeingmovement
Website:  extraordinarybeingmovement.com

Alexandra Markiewicz | Wedding and Family Photographer

It was in recent years that I’ve changed my perspective on situations that had failure and rejection. I used to take it personally when my life didn’t go as I initially planned it, but I learned most about myself through the times that I’ve struggled. Be prepared for these difficulties because they help us to gauge the successes and have a deeper appreciation when that success does come around. When you feel up against insurmountable odds, don’t quit. Keep pushing forward. Don’t be afraid to lean on others when you need it, and be kind and help others because you don’t know who else is going through their own insurmountable odds – people can be really good at hiding their struggles. Lastly, do not be afraid of change. Who I am ten years, five years, even five months ago isn’t the same. I’m constantly growing and trying to better myself. It’s so important to remain humble, but hungry as you face the different pathways of life.

Website: alexandramarksphotography.com
Instagram: @alexandramarksphotography
Facebook: @alexandramarksphotography

Briana Valladares

Always keep a smile and don’t give up. Everything in life happens for a reason, you just gotta stay positive. Look at your tough times as an opportunity to learn, grow and become a better person.

Gina Marie Valentino | Gina’s Cheesecakes | Desserts, and More

Gina Marie Valentino

When the odds are stacked against you you feel like the mountain is too high to climb. Everyone is trying to make their mark in the world and all you want is a little piece to be happy so you keep trying. Your passion has to far exceeded your fear. It took me a long time to figure out what my passion is. Every time I would get excited about something there was somebody else right in front of me who had the same idea. I stepped aside because “who am I”. I gave up so many times. I tried so many things. All of my hobbies were suddenly laced with” how can I make money with this” And completely took the joy out of everything.

But I continued to cook and bake. Two years ago I suddenly lost my smell and taste And have developed severe allergies too many foods. That did not fare very well with me at all as a baker and home chef.  I found that I could not taste actual flavors but I can sense sweet and salty things. I am so grateful that I have the mental memory of flavors so that I can associate it to things that I am eating.

Being in a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship for many years my confidence level was next to nothing. I felt like I didn’t deserve to be successful.  I may have even made up my own obstacles because then It wouldn’t be my fault if I failed. I have a new outlook now and My recent separation has pushed me to aggressively pursue my dream of selling cheesecakes and bakery items. I do deserve success. Why cheesecakes? Because they are good and I can make them on my own schedule and take breaks when Needed. I use an award-winning cheesecake recipe from the 1970s that was given to me by my stepmother who recently passed away. I alter it and customize as needed. I make 6,8,9,and 10 inch cheesecakes, Italian specialty cookies, breads, and take out dinners for 1-4 people. I do most of my baking in the evening because that is when I feel best.

Yes at 58, with fibromyalgia and lupus and many many injuries there are physical challenges I deal with on a daily basis, I’m as financially unstable as you can get at this point in my life, I’m suddenly alone, and unable to work full time due to my health. But I still want to make people happy with my cheesecakes and desserts and try to pay my rent.

I do whatever I can to sell my product. I utilize the next door app in our neighborhood as a way to reach people near me. I go to bakeries, I go to office buildings, banks. I post pictures of all my goods. The first time someone called me up and said that they saw my picture and wanted to buy a cheesecake I cried. My picture enticed them to buy a cheesecake!!!!! I was so happy.

There will always be a lot of obstacles in the way but I also realize in my own journey that there’s always a way around them to get where you need to go. Sometimes you Need help and that’s Ok. TAKE IT!!!!! Take It! Don’t be too proud. Don’t be too stubborn and always ALWAYS Be grateful.

I have to keep telling myself. Is the obstacle bigger than you? No it is not!

You either get over it or go around it. It has taken me a long time to think like this.

I’m not all the way there yet but I’m working on it.

Instagram: @tuttogina_miacucina
Facebook: Gina’s Cheesecakes, Desserts, and More.

Andrea Lin | Incoming Medical Student

Andrea Lin

I’m a pretty goal-oriented person, so I try to break large and looming ideas into smaller goals. This way I can be realistic with what I want and can actually achieve within a certain timeline. By giving myself structure, I feel less overwhelmed, since I only have to tackle one thing at a time. Also having a strong support system like friends and family to encourage you when you feel down is great. But I think the first step is coming to grips with reality yourself and pushing through when the going gets tough!

Instagram: @andrea1in

Sarita L. Walker | Creative Writer & Entrepreneur

Jeffrey Leon Davis

The most important lesson I’ve learned in my journey is “don’t be pushed by your problems, but be led by your dreams.”

― Ralph Waldo Emerson

Have you ever noticed that when you run from things or you do things out of fear or to get rid of your problems so quickly, you become consumed, anxious, worried, discombobulated and you just want it to all be over? But when you follow your dreams and focus on following those dreams one day at a time, and let God or the universe or whoever you believe in handle your problems, things are so much more quieter? Its easy. Flowing. Life doesn’t give you a headache. And then out of nowhere you are getting opportunities and money is flowing from places you didn’t think would come? Like this piece I am now apart of. I am very thankful to be apart of it and it’s just one piece of the journey of my life. Who knows what opportunities that will come from this and all I did was start a business watching dogs because I love animals. So have patience and continue to be led by your dreams, everything else will come to pass as the Universe sees fit.

Personal Instagram: @miss_ritariiii
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Health Coach Instagram:  @tea_2_life
Pet Sitting Instagram: @missritas_petsitting
Blog Instagram: @diaryofritamisses
Author Instagram: @author_slwalker_official
Personal Facebook Page: @sarita.laurin

Experimental Chef | making healthier versions of everything I love and crave

The best advice I could give someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds is to suggest what works for me. I have to get outside myself and try to look at whatever the situation is from all angles. I am a big list maker so I would say write it down and read it back as if it is something your best friend is going through and then try to respond as you would to them- and take your own advice – It’s just what works for me- And if I am still unable to sort it out, step back, relax, gain a clear head/vision and go 100% all in on what you think will help- and pray….. it’s easier said than done but put it in his hands.

Instagram: @themunchkintree

Jill Green | Owner of Sweet Life Garden Backyard Farm and Orchard Organizer/Creator of Arcadia Edible Garden Tour

 I would say go inside yourself and connect to The Devine Healer. Try to surrender all of your fears and gather strength from knowing that all things are in the hands of a Greater Power than you! Its not easy. And, gather family and friends around you.

Website: Sweetlifegarden.com
Instagram: @Sweetlifegarden

 

 

Priscilla Marshall | Photographer

 Breath. Take things one step at a time. It sounds cliché but this advice serves well when facing difficulties. When you’re feeling overwhelmed, it’s hard to make clear and concise decisions. If you take your time, think things through and don’t let the immense weight come down on you, you’ll be able to accomplish anything you put your mind to.

Website: priscillamarshall.com
Instagram: @priscillamarshallphotography

Patty Wilson | Personal Trainer & Transformational Coach specializng in Body Love & Intuituve Eating

The advice I would give and that I live by is to take it one day at a time and one breath at a time. Stay present and do your best to look at the positive in the situation. Listen to you intuition, that gut feeling because its always right!! Stop second-guessing yourself and listening to what others tell you to do. Your inner wisdom is providing guidance; you just have to listen. And ALWAYS continue your self-care…. be it a workout, massage, running, hiking, meditation, etc

You CAN & WILL overcome anything because you are so Poweful!!!

Website: www.pattywilsoncoaching.com
Instagram: @pattywilson_healthcoach
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pattywilsoncoaching/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/patty_wilson
https://www.linkedin.com/in/patty-wilson-825686143/

Carron Schmick | Innkeeper @ Ho’Omaha Huna, A Romantic, Ocean-front Getaway in Maui

 Anyone can be successful. It is our kindness and generosity towards that distinguishes us from others.

Instagram: @hoomahahuna
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hoomahahuna/
Web address: https://airbnb.com/h/hoomaha-huna-maui

Matthew Bracamonte| co-founder of High End Dabzation

It actually took me a couple of days to answer this question after I first initially read it but after looking within myself I think i’ve finally been able to pull out an answer. The most important lessons I’ve learned so far are the importance of self-discipline and the relentless believing your dreams will come true.

Without self-discipline becoming an entrepreneur is absolutely impossible or really accomplishing anything significant in life. Day-in and day-out, good days, bad days, tired days, energetic days, sad days, happy days, all of the days…you need to have that inner voice positively talking inside your head telling you to wake up and seize the day, to put any sort of tiredness or distractions aside, and to focus on the day ahead. The ability to act on that inner voice that knows so vividly the dreams you want to bring to fruition is your biggest asset. Your business can have all the money in the world but if you begin to lose focus, become lazy, and stagnate you won’t have a business for very much longer. Everyday just has to be a Day 1 mentality. Always push yourself past your potential. I’m also a whole lot happier and in a better mood when I’m more self-disciplined too.

Secondly, the importance of just believing. Especially in the beginning. I’ve been running High End Dabzation since March 2019 but before this I was a college dropout with dreams to create mobile apps who then taught himself how to code, moved to Chicago, landed a software engineering job at Bradsdeal.com, got fired, moved back home, worked at Snooze (the brunch spot perfect job for aspiring entrepreneurs), flipped furniture on OfferUp (I started before Garyvee told everyone lol), and now I’m sitting in my office next to a passionate team of six writing this up.

Five months into our business journey right when we were really starting to scale and hit stride the ‘Vapegate’ occurred and nearly an entire population became scared to use the very products that we were manufacturing, and rightly so. States even began to impose immediate vape laws that banned the sales of certain products. For two weeks in September we watched our sales slow and most entrepreneurs might have started thinking of a complete shutdown or pivot to a different service/product. But my strong belief in what we are building and the industry as a whole has kept me optimistic and experimenting. Amidst the vape scare we manufactured the industry’s first near lead free ceramic cartridge which has enabled us to drastically differentiate ourselves from our competitors and show our customers that we care deeply about their health and well being first and foremost.

Every step of my life has been built on the power of belief. Believing that these dreams and goals of mine have been placed inside my head for a reason and sure they may seem far off right now with a lot of hard work, persistence, and perseverance I will live them. On this journey mindset is everything.

Website: www.hedcarts.com
Instagram: @matthewbraca, @hedcarts

Tyler Tang | Photographer & Videographer

 Take some time to analyze yourself before facing such odds. It’s okay to be scared. It’s okay to doubt yourself. It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s not okay to give up easily. If all else fails, give it your best effort. In the end, you’ll be a better person when you overcome.

 

Website: https://www.ttangfilms.me/
Instagram: @ttaaang

 

 

 

Mel Rzeznik | Certified Yoga Teacher

 The way you speak to yourself matters. Treat all with compassion, including yourself. Remember you are worthy and capable. For me, negative thoughts have this tendency to spiral into more negative thoughts. I need to catch them before they spiral out of control. Find the pause inbetween the thoughts, and decide where you want to direct those thoughts. Take over the reigns instead of having those thoughts and reactions control you. I have learned that, like yoga, it’s all practice. Just show up and keep practicing.

Instagram: @mellie.yoga

 

Nick Vance | Lifeguard & private pilot

 If you ever feel like you have a task too difficult to overcome, take a step back and do the research, or put in the work to get it done. We all face that moment of procrastination, but putting something off because you can do it later or because it’s too difficult isn’t good enough. Procrastination is a mindset that you have to set yourself free of and just put in the work in too get it done. The stress you may feel from the task given will all be relieved when you have the satisfaction of getting the work done.

Instagram: @killin_it_kelz
Salon: Mane Attraction Salon

 

Kelly Kain | Hair stylist / Salon educator

When you find yourself at your lowest point or say “rock bottom” it can be really hard to identify what to do or how to surpass such an obstacle. However time is more than past, present, or future. Time has a way of bringing clarity to us to see what is suitable for specific situations. Life’s events will continue to spin you off your cycle and you will continue to gain knowledge with each hurdle. You have to believe in yourself that you can take this challenge that life has given you to grow, learn and surpass them to be a better you. Someday you going through this hardship will teach you to help someone near you, who also is hitting the lowest point in their life. Now that you have the knowledge and guidance of what got you through your struggles, you can significantly change someone’s life. We are all in search of “the good life” but don’t look at what it took to be there. Be patient, be good to yourself and always remember it’s just a moment in time.

Also read some great books and fuel your mind with great knowledge.

“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination.”
-Carl Rodgers

Instagram: @photography_amateur___

Sam Quintanilla | Roscoe, IL Designer

“Find a way” and “Trust the process”

I’ve learned a lot in the last ten years and some of the most important lessons were disguised in adversity and struggle. I graduated high school in 2010, enrolled in three different schools over the next three years, and ultimately dropped out. After moving home I started a sanitation position at a cracker factory and I quickly realized how important a college education was. I would spend my breaks drawing as a mental escape and from rock bottom I chose to follow my interests and pursue a career in shoe design.

From that point on I started my redemption tour and decided nothing was going to get in my way. Fueled by passion I would view new adversity as a challenge to improve myself. I knew that if I were going to chase a dream this big I would have to go all in and find a way to make it happen.

Once I finally returned to school in 2016 I started to climb my way out of an academic hole. I knew I was essentially starting over but my belief in the pursuit kept me locked in. I stayed focused, worked as hard as I could, and trusted the efforts I was putting in. Right now I’m currently a junior at Arizona State studying industrial design and soon I will have my degree. Once again I will find myself facing a fresh start with new challenges but I’ve learned to believe in the hard work, enjoy the grind, and trust the process.

Website: https://www.samqdesign.com
Instagram: @s.quint

 “Soul” Soulinhthone Khaivilay Chanthontip – Public Figure & Photojournalist

 Live life to the fullest. Don’t let anything stop you from living life. Life is beautiful. Especially when you have a second, third or more of life to live. Keep your family close. They are your main support at the end of the day. If your plans don’t go as plan just go with the flow of reality. Do things the right way. Trust your instincts. Don’t second guest so much. Just remember cannot, impossible, no’s, thoughts and negativity are all temporary. You can do this! If you love it! Your happy! Screw what society thinks or sees you as. Your perfect the way you want to be! Be yourself! Anything is possible!

Instagram: @SwaveySouls

 

 

Matthew Cates | Owner & Founder of Rebel Reaper Clothing Company

 I would say keep pushing. There’s plenty of times we all face more than once adversity and when all seems hopeless – my best advice is to keep pushing forward no matter what. Make moves. No matter how big or small, do at least one thing productive each day to get you into the right direction of where and who you ultimately want to be and eventually it WILL happen.

Links: www.RebelReaper.com
Instagram: @rebelreaperclothing
Email: contact@rebelreaper.com
Warehouse/Shop Address: 15863 N Greenway Hayden Loop #116, Scottsdale AZ 85260 , Photographer Instagram: @wasaliveonce

Bob Wallace, MBA – Entrepreneur, Author & Auto Enthusiast

 All too often, the biggest obstacles that are preventing us from moving forward exist between our own ears – in our own head. Maybe you have a scarcity mindset or have a negative relationship with money, relationships, success, you name it. Maybe you think you’re not smart enough or that you lack the education or experience necessary to overcome the odds and challenges that lie before you. Or maybe the problem is that you’re scared of success, or you don’t think you deserve it.

When facing insurmountable odds, when things seem like there is no way out or nothing you can do, or that something seems impossible, the best advice is to get out of your own way. We truly are our own worst enemy. You may have heard the term “stinking thinking” and this is precisely what we all do in these situations. We get inside our own heads and overthink things, think of the worst possible outcomes, and feel both confused, helpless, and not deserving.

My advice, try the following:

Know that insurmountable odds are sometimes inevitable – No matter how well you plan and how well you execute your plan, you are bound to meet with disappointment, setbacks, and failure along the way to your ultimate triumph. Sometimes, you will encounter what seem like overwhelming odds.
Talk to people who have walked the path before you – Every challenge you encounter on your journey has already been experienced – and overcome – by countless others before you. Do your research and find out who these people are. Talk to them one-on-one if you can and ask them what they did to overcome that problem.
Break things down into achievable short-term goals – When you’re faced with big challenges, seemingly insurmountable odds, the best way to deal with it is to break them down into simple, achievable steps. This is true for any goal you want to achieve, really – by breaking it down into a series of smaller tasks, and accomplishing them one at a time. Be sure to set measurable goals with specific deadlines and then determine all of the individual action steps you will need to take to accomplish your goal.
Come up with 3 possible solutions for every problem – When you run into an obstacle or roadblock, a great way to resolve it faster and with less hassle is to brainstorm three possible solutions to it. There’s always more than one way to solve any problem, and in order to find the one that will work best for you, it’s smart to give yourself some options.
5. Set goals that help you stay focused on the big picture – When you’re scaling a mountain, it’s the breathtaking views from the peak—and the triumph you know you’ll feel once you’ve reached the summit – that keep you climbing toward the top. Don’t get stuck thinking only about your next few steps. Remember the ultimate reason why you’re doing this.
6. Be willing to pay the price – Achieving your biggest goals and dreams will require some level of sacrifice. It might mean putting other things in your life on hold while you devote your evenings and weekends toward your dreams. Or it might mean investing some of your savings or giving up a few hours of sleep each night for months on end. Are you willing to make that effort?
7. Never give up / Never Surrender – If the price is something you are willing to pay, commit yourself to achieving your dream – no matter what it takes. The willingness to do whatever is required is the magic ingredient that helps you persevere in the face of challenges, setbacks, pain and even personal injury. I once heard from a long time sports psychiatrist that in assessing sports teams and individual players that consistently win, they have one thing in common – they all wanted to win more than the other team or athletes. This holds true in our personal lives as well.
8. Keep things in perspective – Try to remain focused, driven, positive and “keep things in perspective” meaning to look at the whole “picture”, seeing things in their proper relation/proportion to everything else. The idea is something like stepping back from the things you are most concerned about so you can see other things too that are key pieces to resolving issues and overcoming the seemingly insurmountable odds.

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Michael Ross | Area Sales Manager for BTL Industries

 Each of us, at one time or another, has faced what we thought were insurmountable odds and perhaps thought of giving up. However every day and all around us are ordinary people that, through extraordinary faith and determination, are able to tame the insurmountable into something surmountable and demonstrate we can always overcome.

Website: https://bodybybtl.com/
Instagram: @mikeross_btl_aesthetics
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100025769311664
https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-ross-29b8577/

Mike Newcomb, Executive Director and Food Sharing Facilitator

 My advice to someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds is to reach out to their community for help. Start with knowing and believing there is an abundance of community resources available to us all in times of need. Reach out for help. Please don’t deny the many open-hearted people and organizations in your community the privilege of being of assistance to you.

Website: MOhelp.org, ManzanitaOutreach.org

 

 

Catherine Hildenbrand, jewelry designer and mineral collector

 When I’m faced with a big challenge, it’s easy for me to feel overwhelmed. I’m fiercely independent and have difficulty asking for help, so even though I’m always up for helping others, it’s so hard to allow them to reciprocate! When I feel the stress, I need to break everything down onto a paper list. The series of steps make it feel less overwhelming in my head and I can tackle them one by one. I know that I have family and friends who love and support me to lean on. I also remind myself that I’ve faced some incredibly scary things and I can do it again, with more skill, more vulnerability and more love.

Instagram: @desertmoongem

 

Cameron Horton |Social media influencer

The best advice I have for someone who is facing insurmountable odds is, no matter what everything happens for a reason, so keep your head high, work hard and never be afraid to ask for help!

Instagram: @hyper_horton

 

Dana Gibbons Photography | Personal Brand Marketing Photographer

 For me, the most important lesson that I have learned throughout the years is connection. Without connecting personally with my clients and other local photographers, my career would be at a stand still…and it was for a few years at the beginning. It was only when I started reaching out to fellow photographers and community vendors that changed it all. I was starting to get recognized within the community because I made every effort to be seen and make a personal connection with everyone I met. There is a saying in our community of entrepreneurs: “Community over Competition”. When you start to create lasting relationships with your clients, it show. And through these connections not only will your business grow, but you’ll find lasting relationships and friendship.

Website: danagibbons.com
Instagram: @dgphotoaz

Jonel Filsaime | Graphic Designer & Hiker

 First take a breather outside and give you problems a second thought. Things can look really bad right now but eventually it you’ll have to accept it (if that is the only option) and be able to learn from it because as humans we learn to adapt to things in order to move on.

Website: jonelfilsaime.com
Instagram: @jonelucf

 

 

Brandon Floyd | Father, Owner, Pizzaiolo, Veteran

The most important lesson I have learned along my journey is remembering to make time for myself and my family. Balancing a perfect work/home life is difficult for anyone. When you own a small family restaurant you are the core of the business. Hiring and training the right staff to be able to entrust my business with has been key. Leaving a few hours early or taking a couple of days off helps tremendously not only to give me more time with my family but to recharge my mind and body.

Website: www.floydandcompany.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/floydandcompanypizza/
Instagram: @floydandcompany

 

Brianna Buttaro

Since leaving my comfort zone of the East Coast, 5 years ago I’ve learned to become the person and the listener that i’ve always needed. Since the cross country move, I’ve gotten so curious about other people and their stories. I ask so many questions people think I’m crazy sometimes. I do this with not only my loved ones, but complete strangers too. That’s my favorite, actually. Don’t be afraid to ask the guy next to you how his day was. Celebrate your friends and family. And the guy you heard on the phone tell his brother he got the job while in line at the grocery store? Celebrate with him too. Add a beer to your cart, leave it behind and let the cashier know to give it to him. Be open and stay curious. I promise you’ll hear some wild stories, meet the best humans, and create the strongest bonds.

Instagram: @notbriannabuttaro

 

Justin Allen and Jeff Becker Roles| Co-Founders of Passion4ball Peak Performance Coaching

 Before I would give them any advice, I would try to get them to shift their perspective from the idea that what they are facing is insurmountable and start believing that what they are facing is something they will achieve. Everything happens twice in our life, once in our minds and once in our reality; so it is imperative to help them create a vision for success in the situation. If they don’t believe they can achieve it, they never will. If they believe it is insurmountable, then it will be insurmountable. I would try and help them paint a picture in their mind of them overcoming the situation. How does it feel? What actions are they taking? What are the thinking? Who is giving them support? What are the challenges? How are they showing up to be successful? By creating this vision in their mind, they can shift their belief that it is insurmountable, and create a vision of how they will overcome. Through this process we would also create some ideas for what they need to do to achieve success in this difficult situation.

Secondly, What makes them feel like it is insurmountable? Is it fear? Is it a lack of confidence? If we can address the cause of their belief, we can address the root cause and start shifting their thoughts and beliefs from the core and Take action to remove the fear, take action to gain confidence, etc.

Third, I would try and help them explore a time in their life they did something or overcame something they didn’t believe they could. If they can’t think of anything, then I would try and help them explore someone they knew that achieved something beyond the odds. This is a great way to showcase that the impossible and miracles happen all the time. It is also a great place to dig and say “how did you/they do that?” This way they can collect some ideas of how they or someone else achieved something difficult and explore how they can utilize this information in their current situation.

Fourth, I would address the potential challenges in their way (real and unreal). What is in their control and what is out of their control? In the end they can only really control their own thoughts and actions and trying to control the uncontrollable will only cause pain, anxiety, and fear when they are attempting something difficult. I would help them let go of what they can’t control, identify what they can control and then gain clarity on how they can show up more bold, courageous, etc to successful take action on the things in their control.

Next, I would help them create necessity for why they must take action. Why is it so important for them to achieve or overcome the insurmountable? What will happen if they don’t achieve or overcome? Without necessity, it is too easy to back down, make excuses, and not take big bold action in the face of challenge. With necessity they are more likely to take on a challenge and act with courage.

Lastly, They will need to create a strategy. What is the game plan to overcome or achieve in this difficult situation. What action steps are they going to take? What are their priorities? When will they take action? Where will they get support! “By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.” ― Benjamin Franklin

Website:  www.passion4ball.orgsion4ball_
Instagram: @justinthomasallen,
@coachjeffbecker

Amanda Smith | Licensed Massage Therapist & Energy Healer

 Well, when we are facing anything “insurmountable” the energetic framework begins to spiral into something like tunnel vision. Energy is either expanding or contracting. So, when we are in an experience of contraction, we are presented an opportunity to review what it is we are seeking. That is to ask ourselves, “Why is there so much resistance along this path? Is there any other way to seek a slightly different outcome, with fewer obstacles?” My best advice is to eliminate frustration around the blockages, and to begin curating a new path in a gentle manner. The ever so repeated quote “energy flows where attention goes,” is really quite valid in these moments. Recognize that trying to bulldoze through a brick wall is a dense experience, and that surrendering to that density often softens and presents possibilities for solutions. Reclaim your power, your sovereignty and your ability to choose. You are a limitless expression of the universe and have the capacity to recreate yourself in every moment. So I guess, in my life, if anything feels “insurmountable,” I will bow to the greater expression, surrender, and find a new way. Often, holding the mantra of “ease and grace,” as I recreate my route. Blessed be.

Website: www.ElementTreeHealing.com
Instagram: @element.tree

Sari Custer | Chief Science and Curiosity Officer for Arizona Science Center

 With all the scientific revelations paleontologists have learned from our current exhibition, Victoria the T. rex – an exhibition showcasing one of the most significant T. rex finds in recent history – I am reminded that, in science and in life, there’s always more to discover. So, my most important lesson in my journey is to never stop wondering and never stop imagining!

Website: azscience.org
Instagram: @azsciencecenter, @SariOnScience

Beth Williams | Marketing Manager for Volterra

  It would be easy to say “just stick it out, persevere, etc.”, but frankly when people can’t afford to put food on the table, they’re not building or remodeling their homes, so dedication and commitment to our business would never have been enough. We had to streamline our product line to include only the most profitable items that were still selling. Even as our business is thriving today, I’ll still give any business owner the same advice: Stick with what you’re good at and crush it! At various points over the years, we tried to expand our product line to include veneer stone and some other things, but had to stop production because the competition for those products was overwhelming. We own the faux beam market today because we capitalized on a niche market and focused a majority of our energy being the best at those products.

Website: https://www.volterraproducts.com/
Instagram: @volterra_products
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/volterraproducts/?ref=settings

https://www.pinterest.com/volterra/

Michael Browder | Makeup Artist, Drag Queen, female Impersonator

The best advice I can give to someone is the advice I would give myself which is first to not worry, there is nothing in the world that you can’t overcome, you can do whatever and anything you set your mind too.

Instagram: @Mikeyb810
Facebook: Aubrey Ghalichi

 

Hunter Holquin aka Shayroc | Artist & entrepreneur

The most important lesson that I have learned thus far is that patience is key, and studying your craft is inevitable if you are serious about it.

Instagram: @shayroc
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Lana | Jewelry Maker

 Everyone always told me it was impossible to be an artiste when I grew up so I wanted to prove myself right! The most important lesson that I’ve learned so far is to never give up on something you are passionate about. It’s passion; not patience. I’ve had an entire case or minerals and jewlrey stolen from me 2 years into my craft. I was devastated and lost over a few thousand dollars in materials and art alone. It turned into situation that became a blessing. Itonly made me wanna get back in the game and go bigger and be better than I was. Dont give up on your passions.

Instagram: @Fractalwires
Facebook: alana salamone
Etsy: etsy.com/wrapsnsuch

 

Wilberto Sierra | Photographer & IT Security Administrator

 Throughout my life journey, I’ve accomplished many goals, but through the path, I’ve encountered obstacles that prevented me to reach them. However, I am the type of person that I like to be challenged and never give up. Also, I have a great support channel or a group of individuals that supports, motivates and inspires me. My support group was critical during my quest because they were the ones that pushed me to be the best, to keep trying and never give up. Sometimes when we are facing obstacles that we might think is the end, we should take a step back, think outside the box, and ask for help. In end, we should never give up, sometimes taking a break helps, but always have your eyes set on the goal.

Instagram: @wsierraphotography
Website: https://500px.com/wilbertosierra
https://wsierra82.wixsite.com/wsierraphotography

Compel Church | Bringing Hope & Healing to the West Valley

As a church, our vision is to bring hope and healing to our community. Hope is an essential part of overcoming insurmountable odds. Being a church, we believe there is always a God factor to examine when facing insurmountable odds, something we would call a miracle. However, miracles aren’t magical or mystical, rather, they are a partnership with the supernatural.

Before a miracle ever takes place, we often are met with an unforeseen or seemingly impossible circumstance that requires faith to move beyond. Faith is more than a belief in something, in fact, the Bible says that true faith produces action – and action is a necessary component for anyone facing insurmountable odds. It is the belief that the obstacle ahead of us is not for our demise, but for our development. That the pain of the moment will not paralyze us, but propel us forward. In this environment, our faith deepens and gives us strength to face future impossible situations with greater faith and courage.

Lastly, we encourage people to find a community that will both cheer them on and champion their development. We need people who will believe in us before we sometimes believe in ourselves. We also need people who can share hard truths when we are heading the wrong direction. Very few things, if any, will shape us more than the people we hang around with. If you’re facing insurmountable odds, find the right people to help carry you to the other side.

If you’re facing insurmountable odds, know that you can make it and you’re not alone!

Website: compelchurch.com
Instagram: @CompelChurch
Facebook: facebook.com/CompelChurch/

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Meet Catherine Pettitt of Corbin’s Legacy Charity in Mesa http://voyagephoenix.com/meet-catherine-pettitt-corbins-legacy-charity-mesa-arizona/ http://voyagephoenix.com/meet-catherine-pettitt-corbins-legacy-charity-mesa-arizona/#respond Thu, 20 Feb 2020 01:00:53 +0000 http://voyagephoenix.com/?p=119947 Today we’d like to introduce you to Catherine Pettitt. Thanks for sharing your story with us Catherine. So, let’s start at the beginning and we can move on from there. I am a professional educator who has worked in high poverty, Title 1 schools throughout the Phoenix area for the past two decades. I am […]

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Today we’d like to introduce you to Catherine Pettitt.

Thanks for sharing your story with us Catherine. So, let’s start at the beginning and we can move on from there.
I am a professional educator who has worked in high poverty, Title 1 schools throughout the Phoenix area for the past two decades. I am currently pursuing my doctorate at Northern Arizona University while serving as a lead teacher and principal intern for the Mesa Public School District. My mission as a teacher is to provide for the holistic needs of students. Along my teaching journey, I befriended a generous soul with whom I taught: Corbin Leafman. Her mission to serve her students aligned with mine. While her life was brief due to cancer, in her honor, those closest to her launched the charity, Corbin’s Legacy: a local 501c3 nonprofit, which has provided food and medical services to Title 1 elementary school students since 2015.

I now currently serve as Corbin’s Legacy’s Title 1 Schools Director. Corbin’s Legacy provides mass distributions of food to Title 1 schools in Mesa, Glendale, Phoenix, Laveen, Apache Junction, and Peoria. In the past year, our charity has distributed 5,400 backpacks filled with food and sponsored 400 Title 1 classrooms (food is provided to classrooms during the school day). Most prominently, Corbin’s Legacy has a medical platform, which has funded the first school-based health clinic in Mesa Public Schools at Emerson Elementary School. This school-based health clinic has partnered with A.T. Still University, wherein medical students give health screenings under the supervision of a physician. My doctoral work is focused on studying the effects of the clinic.

Great, so let’s dig a little deeper into the story – has it been an easy path overall and if not, what were the challenges you’ve had to overcome?
The best lesson I have learned, and a mantra I like to use is this: you need to give it a try one more time. It’s that moment when you want to quit that is the most pivotal: just one more attempt reinvigorates your mission and usually offers some clarity. One of the greatest challenges I encountered as a Title 1 Schools Director for my charity was building credibility and merit with new school partnerships. The elevator speech requires repetition, faith, and persistence.

Corbin’s Legacy Charity – what should we know? What do you do best? What sets you apart from the competition?
Corbin’s Legacy’s mission is to improve outcomes of underrepresented elementary school children through the elimination of food and medical insecurity. Our vision is to be changed and make change for good because we knew her. The most unique and wonderful part of our charity is that we don’t require any documentation of need, and we never turn away a request for food or medical assistance for underrepresented elementary children.

What moment in your career do you look back most fondly on?
Seeing the transformational power, first hand, of how the community responds — has been humbling and fruitful. It’s well and good to contribute your own talents, but it is remarkable to step back and watch a community share in an effort to make positive, lasting change.

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Angela Vaughan; JJ Westgate

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The Trailblazers: Rewriting the Narrative http://voyagephoenix.com/trailblazers-rewriting-narrative/ http://voyagephoenix.com/trailblazers-rewriting-narrative/#comments Tue, 22 Oct 2019 01:00:11 +0000 http://voyagephoenix.com/?p=20366 The editorial team has a special attachment to our new series, The Trailblazers: Rewriting the Narrative, because so many of us feel that media portrayals of women have been too one dimensional. Today, women are doing incredible things in all fields – from science and technology to finance, law, business, athletics and more.  With the Trailblazers series, we hope […]

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The editorial team has a special attachment to our new series, The Trailblazers: Rewriting the Narrative, because so many of us feel that media portrayals of women have been too one dimensional. Today, women are doing incredible things in all fields – from science and technology to finance, law, business, athletics and more.  With the Trailblazers series, we hope to highlight and celebrate female role models, encourage more equal and just representation in the media, and help foster a more tight-knit community locally helping women find mentors, business partners, friends and more.

Casa Grande

Chandler

Gilbert

Glendale

Maricopa

Mesa

Peoria

Phoenix

Scottsdale

Surprise

Tempe

Tucson

San Tan Valley

 

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#LadyBoss: redefining what a boss looks like http://voyagephoenix.com/girlboss-redefining-boss-looks-like/ http://voyagephoenix.com/girlboss-redefining-boss-looks-like/#comments Thu, 19 Sep 2019 01:00:43 +0000 http://voyagephoenix.com/?p=63361 Too many of us grew up only seeing one kind of boss or leader in the media. The lack of representation for other groups reinforced harmful stereotypes and acted as a self-fulfilling prophesy, but would our opinion of what a leader looks like be different if the media did a better job at representing the […]

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Too many of us grew up only seeing one kind of boss or leader in the media. The lack of representation for other groups reinforced harmful stereotypes and acted as a self-fulfilling prophesy, but would our opinion of what a leader looks like be different if the media did a better job at representing the true diversity of leadership in America?

Women and other under-represented groups are already leading many great companies, organizations, & academic institutions; others are authoring best-sellers, building engaged audiences, leading movements and more.

We had the honor of connecting with many of the best and brightest female leaders from in and around the city and we asked them our question of the month: What is the best advice you have for someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds.

We encourage you to check out the female leaders we’ve highlighted below, follow them on social media if you find their work or story interesting and most importantly do your part to #fightstereotypes.

Moxie PRN

The best advice I could give to someone who feels they are facing an insurmountable challenge is that there is no such thing. Every challenge and obstacle is able to be overcome. One small step at a time is the key. If you believe you can do it, then you can.

www.moxieprn.com
@moxieprn

Kaylan Rosa | Plant Sitting, Care, and Consultation

We are capable of so much more than we are led to believe; with determination, a positive mindset, and faith in oneself, we can achieve our aspirations. When you keep taking small steps toward your goal, you’ll find it isn’t as insurmountable as it originally seemed.

growandgo.net
@groandgo 
@groandgrub

Aisha Shahid | Graphic Designer | marketing specialist

My advice is to always look for the positives and think rationally in every situation. I realize that is easier said than done, but in moments when we are overwhelmed, positive thoughts rarely occur, and we tend to break ourselves down. A lot of what we think is insurmountable, can usually be solved if we just sit and take a deep breath for a minute or two and think rationally about the situation. We also need to know what we can and cannot handle and when to let go of things.

It is also important to have the confidence to take on whatever the world might throw at us and that confidence builds up as you go on with life and deal with a lot of different obstacles. When we are too in our heads about something causing us a lot of stress, we can’t come up with a solution. So yes, my advice is taking a deep breath and making a list of positives.

In my creative career, I have found there to be so many challenges. There were certain things I wasn’t sure how to do before I started working as a designer and I would get overwhelmed with so many assignments at one time. As time went on, I learned how to handle stress a bit better. Not just in terms of work, but other things in life as well. We just have to think rationally and know what we are capable of as humans, which is a lot.

@_artsy25
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Caterina | Fashion Producer & Psychology Student

My best advice would be to believe and have faith in yourself. You have all the tools to get where you want to be, you have the power to design the life you want to have, but you have to be consistent, persistent and patient through the process. Teach yourself discipline, try to be a better person day after day and overcome your limits and demons!

@caterinathome

 

 

Marie Miller | Jabz Boxing Co-Owner and Trainer

I would say drinking more coffee and wine, but that really isn’t the solution. My advise is to know what your end goal is and then take it one step at a time. Always celebrate the small achievements as you know they will lead to bigger results. Even if it feels like a huge challenge, you can do anything you set your mind too. It just might be one piece of the puzzle at a time. Stay positive, push forward and punch through those negative thoughts.

@TheMillersNest
@Jabzonbell
@Jabz.CentralPHX
@LiveB.O.B
jabzboxing.com/locations/16thandbell
jabzboxing.com/locations/centralphx

Michelle Renee | Model

Life doesn’t stop for anybody, so when times get rough, you gotta pick your head up and keep moving, or you’ll get left behind.

@Michelle.renee.17
@4Michelle2Renee0

 

 

Cynthia Dales | Certified Fitness Trainer, Co Author (book will be published on 9/19/2019) & Transformation Specialist

Amber Anderson

When you have a big challenge that seems insurmountable, I find for me it’s best to break it down into smaller chunks.. Using weight loss example: someone who wants to lose 100 lbs. Seeing that huge number can be overwhelming but if you break it down into 5 to 10 pound chunks and reward each goal that is achieved, it makes that 100 lb more manageable and not so overwhelming. The smaller goals are seem more achievable and you also get the benefit of seeing that you are making progress towards the big goal.

cynthiadales.com 
@cldales 
@cldales

 

 

Ada Rose Mancusi | Designer & Jewelry Maker

Take a break from it and let yourself refresh and refocus. I love baking so whipping up a batch of my favorite 15 minute muffins takes my mind off the challenge and takes me to a relaxing mental space. Bonus – I am left with something sweet to help me face the challenge when I am ready to jump back in.

@stylewitharose
etsy.com/shop/adarosesattic

 

 

Allie Mathews | Salon Co Owner & Stylist at Tribe Hair Co

Stop doubting yourself, work hard and make it happen!

When facing something that seems impossible, I think it’s important to know you can do anything you set your mind to. When you are determined and passionate about something the possibilities are endless.
I would rather try and fail than wonder if I could have been successful. If you do fail, look at it as a lesson and it will steer you in the direction of success. We are all capable of being successful, but its those who actually venture out of their comfort zone and do things that scare them that have success. I believe by switching your mentality from “I think I can” to “I know I can, and I will“ is very important!

@alliemathews_hairtribe

 

Charlii Jones | Real Estate Agent

When faced with a challenge that feels insurmountable, my biggest piece of advice is to break the challenge down into steps. Similarly to the saying “There is only one way to eat an elephant; one bite at a time,” so don’t be too consumed with how impossible it may seem at first. By approaching the challenge step by step you can celebrate the little wins which will keep you motivated. Just remember, this challenge is just helping you to become the best version of yourself and it gets greater, later.

charliijones.com
@charlii_therealtor

 

 

Michele Lough | Owner & Designer of The Denim Dreamery

S.J. Stills

Never give up. There is always a solution with thorough research, dedication, and the trust in yourself that you can make anything happen. Be comfortable setting aside your pride and asking for help or guidance from somebody who was once in your shoes.

TheDenimDreamery.com
@TheDenimDreamery 
etsy.com/shop/thedenimdreamery

 

 

Lauren Rosin | Associate Broker | Realtor | Leader The Lauren Rosin Team (+ #Bossbabe )

My biggest advice is to focus on yourself: where you are now and where you want to be. Find what motivates you, create a plan, and hold yourself accountable to stick to it. Whatever you do, don’t compare yourself to other people. Your chapter 1 is not the same as someone else’s chapter 5. And if as you are going along in your plan you happen to face some set backs or failures… GOOD. There is no success without learning from failures. So don’t let them stop you. Use them to learn, get up & dust yourself off, remember your motivation, and remind yourself where you want to be. Then keep working to get there!

thelaurenrosinteam.com 
@laurenrosin  
@laurenrosin 
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Merdiana Spaiju | Personal Trainer & Fitness Nutrition Specialist

Life is full of challenges and problems but it also is filled with love, happy moments, endless possibilities. It is all up to your perspective on how you’re going to view this journey of life, so if you believe a problem is insurmountable, it will be! Sometimes I think back in time and realize that I am happy that some of the things I wanted to go differently didn’t go like that because I wouldn’t have had all the good things that happened after that. Every time you’re facing something challenging just stop and look around you, you don’t need to look far to see people who are dealing with far greater challenges than you but still keep going strong and attacking life with all they’ve got. Just watch the news, see people who get displaced, lose someone close to them, get handed all kinds of health diagnoses and compare your challenge to theirs.
So here I am being your voice of reason today: do not sit in self pity and wait for the solution to come to you, bring out the positivity from within you and tackle the challenge in front of you! If it is something that really has no solution, maybe it wasn’t meant to be resolved and maybe one day you’ll laugh at how it probably wasn’t a challenge at all. All of this might not be easy at all but it’s better than feeling sorry for yourself!
There is a quote that I like to resonate with “”stars can’t shine without darkness””, meaning life can’t always be sparkling and beautiful, you need some of those problems and challenges to bring out the best in you, you were made to be strong and yes, you can handle anything!

@meri_diana

Dana Bentley Black | REALTOR®

When I’m faced with an obstacle that feels insurmountable the first thing I do is to pray for wisdom, peace and guidance. When you have faith that ‘You Can’ it gives you strength and confidence to pursue whatever the challenge is with confidence and passion. To quote Roger Crawford: Being challenged in life is inevitable, being defeated is optional.

makeyournextstep.com
@danainthedesert
@DanaInTheDesert
linkedin.com/in/danabentleyblack

 

Lexa Renay | Model and Follower of Jesus

I would honestly encourage everyone to look at God and care for others when they are feeling lost of depressed, a lot of the time we are all so consumed and focused on ourselves we drown in our own sorrows. But use that energy and help others and spread love and I promise you will fee so much better, you will feel life. Life is better selfless.

@lexarenay

 

 

Alex Longo | Lifestyle Blogger

I’ve have had a few challenges in my life and as I look back at how I got through these obstacles I always took the time to slow down, think it through, and lean on my friends/family to support me. I believe because of these challenges it’s made me a better person, spouse, and mother!

@redheadinpink

 

 

Laryssa balderrama | Artist

The best advice I can give is never take no for a answer when it comes to your dreams and something you believe in , always remain genuine to your self , keep moving forward and never give up believe in yourself and know that anything is possible expect miracles!

@misslaryssa
@amaznarts 

 

 

Lacy Hodges | Online Business Coach & Strategist

I believe that every woman has the ability to overcome any challenge they may face even when they feel like it is insurmountable.

They can…⠀

Build a business that they are proud to share ⠀

Make money online⠀

Grow a following of soulmate clients⠀

Show up every day and share her message⠀

Get results daily⠀

Do what they love⠀

Show up as herself without shame or embarrassment⠀

Create the life they thought was only for the lucky ones and in movies⠀

Create the freedom they crave and desire each and every day⠀

Day after day I hear from women how they would do this but they don’t have the time. ⠀

They would do that but they don’t have the money. ⠀

But they don’t. ⠀

It takes more time to make excuses then it does to actually show up, do the work and get the results.

You can get results no matter how much money you have or how much time you have during the day or what your past was like. You have the same opportunity as everyone else but you have to show up, do the work and take action to get results because it’s important to you. ⠀

Remember… ⠀

You can’t deposit excuses but you can deposit checks… It’s Now or Never. ⠀

You can have the life and business of your dreams if you show up, do the work and take action daily.

coacheshangout.com
@lacyjhodges
facebook.com/groups/theonlinehangout
@lacy.hodges

Victoria Willow | Transformational Guide | Perspective Shifter | Movement Creator & Mystic

It gets to a point where one has to be real with themselves and ask, How badly do I want to change my story? Is this “story” really mine? Have I created this for myself? Has my surroundings played a role in it? Have I allowed my surroundings to affect me? Notice your Will to keep pushing forward. Although it may not FEEL like it, you are, and that’s an incredible start. It’s about changing your perspective and seeing your situation for what it’s really worth. How can you view your situation differently? I ask that you remove yourself from your own attachment to your story, and from a detached point of view, really observe the situation and speak to yourself about what it really is. Choose to be honest with yourself, and understand what is going on. Be curious and dive deep. Allow yourself the permission to go there. Cry, yell, scream from the pit of your Being, workout, dance, sing, meditate. Do something that resonates with you that will help you release, and as many times as necessary. Understand that whomever gave us life, had a grander picture for each and every single one of us. The Creator, Universe, God, Source, Light, Energy, Something More knew we were capable of getting through the challenge that is holding us back from being our Greatest Self. You ARE strong enough, TRUST! Believe that you are. There is a specific message, lesson waiting for you at the end of that dark space, where light breaks through. Your Divine message is meant to be shared with others. For every person you meet, is for a reason. That reason may be for them to hear the message you learned from your turmoil. Imagine how helpful that would be to them. Imagine how impactful that would be for them. Imagine you just saved their life…Imagine. As for time, it’s non existent when it comes to healing. Allow yourself to heal, for you are capable of Healing. Forgive yourself and those that need to be forgiven. Be kind to yourself and give YOU what you need. Possibly a hug. Or looking at yourself in the mirror saying “I love you”, and keep saying it until the magic begins to create. You may break down, you may have a deep conversation with yourself, you may even laugh. I say GREAT!!! You deserve to be honest with yourself! The beauty that comes from your realization is more powerful than you could possibly ever fathom. Let life flow and see what unravels.  I love you, and I see you. I know…trust, I know. And I believe in you, you STRONG, CAPABLE Being You! YOU GOT THIS!!!

#Growth

@takescourage.life

Laura Ozuna | Cannabis Entrepreneur | Writer | Founder @ Chronic Sad Girls Club

When we face challenges that seem impossible to overcome, they sometimes isolate us and have us feeling alone and misunderstood. If you find yourself in a situation like this, one important thing to remember is that you’re not alone. There are others facing their own obstacles to whom you may be able to relate. There’s something very special about being a part of a supportive community who understands you, so if you’re up to it, seek those people out. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it. Also, please try not to be so hard on yourself for going through a rough time. You’re doing your best, and that’s enough. When I face challenges that seem insurmountable, I often start small. I ask myself “What small steps can I take now to help my end goal?” Then, I try to turn my impossible challenge into a series of small, attainable goals. This makes it easier to see and gauge progress. When you face difficult obstacles, it’s also so important to give yourself credit for any progress you make or challenge you overcome— no matter how small. Every single step you make toward overcoming a challenge, self-improvement, and healing, is a victory. So take some time to acknowledge your efforts, and remember to always be kind to yourself.

@chronicsadgirlsclub
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Aydee Arrayales | Makeup supplier

My advice is always to think positive, difficult times will arise when you think you can no longer be able to, but everything has a solution. we have to look for the good side of things, and that all this makes us stronger and motivates us to believe more in ourselves, we can do more than what we expect , make your limits grow and always try to be a better version of you. Think you can do it and you will do it!

@jackyearr

 

 

Sarah Laos | Creative Director, Laos Haos  | Brand Marketing | Design Consulting

I would say first examine the situation and self reflect. Has this feeling of insurmountability been a trend in your life or is this seasonal? What’s stopping you? Once you can answer these questions you can grow and learn from your obstacles and road blocks. Sometimes your obstacle courses are challenging and refreshing while sometimes your road blocks are impatiently long but in the end worth the trial. Allow yourself to feel all the emotions. Be present. Fill your world of wisdom, good energy and encouragement. That’s what you need. It’s okay to ask for help… to ask for advice. It’s in these times where we can connect and learn from intimate moments vulnerability. You’ll get there. It’s normal to struggle.

@laoshaos 
@saraheliiza

Samantha Keleher | Unique Food & Travel Itineraries | Industrial Engineer

First, step away for a little while. Do something you love to get a new perspective. Sometimes I just need to get away from the situation or put myself into a new setting to help me see the challenge in a different light. Once you have had some time where you are not focused on the challenge, create your “lighthouse” off in the distance. Picture yourself having completed whatever the challenge is, now all you need is the boat to get you there. Write down the steps it takes to get there and focus on one step at a time, just like you would focus on paddling the boat one stroke at a time. Lastly sometimes you will come across smaller challenges on your way to facing your insurmountable challenge. Remind yourself what you have already accomplished and that its not worth turning around now when you are so close to getting to your destination.

@handpickedhostess

Sarah Kehoe | Co-blogger

Don’t approach the challenge as a whole. Break it down into small achievable steps so you don’t feel so overwhelmed. I like to create a checklist of those steps so I can physically cross something off my list and feel like I am one step closer to achieving my goal. And do not be afraid to ask for help! I always see asking for help as a sign of strength, rather than a weakness. Believe that you can and will get through it!

@creamcityconfidant
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Lindsay Viker | Owner of Viker Media and Everyday Dishes

When I’m facing a huge challenge, I like to break it down into smaller parts. I find that it’s a lot easier to focus on accomplishing smaller goals and celebrating the little victories.   The most important step with this is constantly checking in to ensure that your plan is continuing to move you closer to your long term goal and pivoting or re-prioritizing where necessary.

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Jacqueline Valdez | Entrepreneur & Social Media Consultant

The advice I would give someone facing a challenge they feel is insurmountable would be to surround yourself with those who lift your spirits, can be family and close friends. I think having someone to talk to can really help clear your mind and give solution to those challenges you might see as impossible to overcome. Be true to yourself and know there’s always a solution to every hurdle.

@officialbabyphase
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Bitsy Deubler | Yoga Instructor

The best advice I could give to someone who is facing a challenge they feel is insurmountable is to just Breath. I believe the breath is our biggest tool and when we can just stop and breath deeply we become equipped to handle much more than we knew we could. I would also say to trust the process. Sometimes our biggest challenges turn out to be our greatest teachers and we come out better in the end. Or at the very least there is an opportunity for growth. It isn’t easy, but being present and learning to trust the process can elevate so much worry and pain.

@bitsy_yogoyoga
@Bitsy-yogoyoga

Rochelle DeLucia | Lead Designer at Yonker Construction

Just keep going and believe in yourself, and you will find that you are your strongest in the most insurmountable moments and in the end you will be happy you did because those moments are moments of personal growth and learning.

yonkerconstructionaz.com
@rochelle.delucia.5
@rochelle_delucia
@yonkerconstructionaz

Alma Esquivel | Beauty Vlogger and Makeup Enthusiast

The best advice I could give to someone who is facing a challenge they feel is insurmountable is to have a positive mindset and shine a bright light on whatever the situation may be. Positivity only attracts positivity, it’s all about the mind and the way one reacts. At the end of the day, that challenge wouldn’t be there if one couldn’t overcome it.

youtube.com/almaesquivel  
@almaesquivelx 

Kiara Felix

Sean Seymour

The advice I’d give to someone facing a challenge they feel is insurmountable is to first remember life is 10% what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it. I have found that your mind is your worst enemy and as human beings we are naturally drawn to negativity. To attack an obstacle that seems insurmountable head on, you must tear down the idea that you are incapable of overcoming it. Take it piece by piece or day by day, track your progression, and reward yourself for the work you put in. Soon enough you’ll find yourself in a place you didn’t think was possible at the start.

@kiara_felix

Karla L | Mama | Civil Engineer

I would say every failure or success is an experience and failures make you see things differently after evaluating what went wrong. Every day you always learn something new so don’t be afraid to fall.

@polymathmom

Marcy Briggs | Mortgage Loan Originator

Ask yourself “is this “MY challenge, or is it a challenge SOMEONE ELSE thinks I need to conquer”?  I think perception is key.  Break it down.  Ask yourself “what is your desired result”?  Then ask “what is the worst result that can happen”?   I think once we break it down, it doesn’t seem so scary.

@BriggsTeam

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Too many of us grew up only seeing one kind of boss or leader in the media. The lack of representation for other groups reinforced harmful stereotypes and acted as a self-fulfilling prophesy, but would our opinion of what a leader looks like be different if the media did a better job at representing the true diversity of leadership in America?

Women and other under-represented groups are already leading many great companies, organizations, & academic institutions; others are authoring best-sellers, building engaged audiences, leading movements and more.

We had the honor of connecting with many of the best and brightest female leaders from in and around the city and we asked them our question of the month: What is the best advice you have for someone who feels like they are facing insurmountable odds.

We encourage you to check out the female leaders we’ve highlighted below, follow them on social media if you find their work or story interesting and most importantly do your part to #fightstereotypes.

Chereece Thier | Mompreneur (Entrepreneur)

Achieving my goals and dreams took persistence to overcome my greatest obstacle which was myself. Once was able to overcome myself everything fell into place. I overcame myself by getting out of my own way and creating a new path. I started small going to the gym, running, and listening to motivational speakers on YouTube. I regained my confidence in myself. I would tell everyone, Don’t stop keeping going for your goals and dreams. Don’t take, “No” for an answer. “No,” is just another opportunity to find another way!

As an entrepreneur faced many obstacles such as caring for my four children while working on my business and creating a new brand Suits 4 Dads. Suits 4 Dads provide a clean gently used suit to a Dad who is overcoming Parental Alienation, which in most cases these amazing dads just need the right tools to overcome their struggles. By providing a suit to him, we are helping him regain his self confidence for his day in court against his Alienator.

I leave you with this quote by Eleanor Roosevelt, “you gain strength, courage, and confidence- by every experience in which you’re really stop to look FEAR in the face. do the thing that you think you cannot do.”

@simplychereece
@ChereeceThier 

Sara Jenness | 2nd grade teacher & Glitter Tumbler Artist

Take a deep breath. Just step back and breathe for a second. You can do this.  There are so many situations that create busyness and confusion in our day to day lives. With today’s need to hustle and fill our calendars we are often faced with challenges that feel insurmountable. When I feel myself faced with a challenging deadline and covered in glitter, not enough hours in the day, kids hanging off my legs at work and home, the most important tool I have found in my busy life is creating a detailed list and setting mini goals for myself and my projects I need to accomplish. When that feeling of panic starts to loom, nothing feels better than a handwritten list on crisp white paper. Taking a project and dividing it into smaller pieces with attainable deadlines, helps to provide small successes that fuel my fire and help provide a sense of accomplishment to keep me moving forward. I will even write down the amount of time I think each step will take. This helps me be able to slide pieces and parts into sections of my time throughout the day and head off some of that trepidation that comes from overwhelming tasks.  As I see my list shrinking and start to see the anxiety and feelings from that challenge in my rear view mirror, I recognize how good it feels to push forward through that adversity and end up on the other side. Remember, you CAN do this!!

@coffeeglitterandsunshine

Sherry Ruffy | Psychology Student & Travel Enthusiast

Take a deep breath and remind yourself that you are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. No challenge is insurmountable because you are capable of achieving anything you set your heart and mind into; never give up, especially not on yourself. Don’t focus on the result(s), but rather, focus on the process. When you feel overwhelmed, take it slow and reflect on your goals and motives. Stay consistent, be patient, and have a better attitude about the challenges. Above all, take care of yourself. Life can be tough at times but so are you!

@miss.sherrry

Leah Hall | Personal Brand Strategist

The best advice I would share with someone that is facing a challenge they feel is insurmountable is – each challenge provides two options, learn the lesson from the challenge to develop or pivot from the challenge and allow the lesson to enhance your outcome. Each day you will have experiences that challenge you – the key is not to allow those perceived challenges to hinder you from reaching your goals.

Being able to overcome is a choice. Choose to see that challenge simply as a step to your next win. Take ownership of your story, your success, and your journey.

leahhall.co 
@leahhall.co
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Michaela Drazkowski | Beauty and Motherhood Blogger

Just keep on trying no matter how many times you fail. It could take 1 time or it could take 100. If you put your mind to it you can do it! Don’t look for the easy way out, really work your butt off for what you want or you will never succeed! Practice Makes Progress!!

Twiztedfairy19.wordpress.com 
@beautymua.boymomx4

EDEN | Filmmaker & artist

“If you can dream it, you can do it!”- Jimmy MacElroy

 edenbartok.com
@3d3n

Emma Chase | Virtual Health & Fitness Coach

 

 

Just start…and keep going. Be okay with walking this journey imperfectly. Anytime we do something new, we aren’t going to be good at first, so be willing to fail forward a LOT.  That is how you can GROW forward. When you have moments of doubt, discouragement, or despair, use sweat and prayer to find the strength inside of you to keep going. Remind yourself of how you want to feel when it’s done then focus on whatever you need to do to get to where you need to be. I like to keep an evidence journal where I write down 3 things everyday that prove I moved forward towards my goals. It helps me to see that I’m on the right path.  Just start and don’t stop until you get there.

.healthyemma.com 
@ChaseLifeWithEmma 

Michelle Schaefer | Avon Independent Sales Rep

I love baseball and that sport offers a lot of lessons on challenges.  I think it was Babe Ruth who said, “Every strike brings me closer to the next home run.”  Each time you fall down, lose, feel defeated, get back up and try again.  Even successful people like Babe Ruth had times where they were striking out and could not break the streak.  When I feel like I am losing control and surrounded by chaos, I take a forced pause and reflect on all that is good in my life.  I take myself into a place of gratitude. I believe when we are filling our hearts and minds full of all of the positives, it crowds out those feelings of failure and fear.  It always helps to recall a past challenge I that at the time seemed beyond my capabilities and once I remember how I conquered, I get back to beast mode of breaking it down, making a plan and taking action. Reshaping the focus of our minds and staying true to what is in our hearts is beyond powerful.  Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.  Believe in yourself and find your path through.

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Kylee Kristiane Wilkinson | Entrepreneur

Doubt can manifest negativity when we are blinded with difficulty. By trusting the design of hidden lessons, we learn detachment from fear provides peace. Seeking the truths of our creator has brought me clarity throughout life’s roller coaster of unpredictable.

@kyleekristiane

Megan Renee Linnell |Creative and Mental Health Advocate

I had a therapist once in a group program that painted a picture for her broken out-patients: if you beat yourself up because you used to be able to get up and go out with your friends after a long day of work…  (look good, socialize, and spend hours outside of the comfort of your own home), but now you find yourself lying in bed for 16 hours a day not even able to take care of your hygiene, let alone deal with anxiety from going out and mingling amongst a crowd of strangers, take a breath and first give yourself grace to heal: and once you’re ready – save yourself the guilt with this motto: “No More Zero-Days.”

Meaning, if you used to go out dancing and now that seems like an insurmountable task, start simple. If you can’t even find the energy to do your make up and your hair after trying to take a shower for an event that takes 100 steps, then how about taking one. If lying in bed is all you can do, maybe get up and go to the bathroom and start a shower. If you feel like you can’t finish it then turn it off and go back to bed. But that was not a zero day; you took a step. Perhaps the next week, after a few days of getting out of bed, you’ll be able to take a couple more. Perhaps next you’ll wash your hair, and that’s progress. After, you’ll start to brush your teeth. Perhaps next you’ll send your old friends a text that says “xoxo, maybe I’ll see you again soon.” not committing to plans, yet? That’s fine

But when you’re lying in bed, don’t daunt yourself with what feels impossible. If step one hundred looks and feels impossible, remind yourself you don’t have to go there yet. Look at what you have control over, even if it’s small, just start there – usually there’s a lot of growth just in what we are able to hold  and please, be kind to yourself.

PS, I know this sounds bizarre and cynical, but true hope lies in knowing that if I don’t put any honest effort into conquering an intimidating, fear-filled thing in front of me, the default consequence will be failure; so for me it’s comforting knowing that even just *meeting* the obstacle with a courageous approach means I’m that much closer to winning. And if I can liberate my spirit by shedding what’s holding me back and I take one step, what would be the difference between my first and my hundredth?

@megggganreneee 
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Jashele Tillman | Web Developer & Creative

Allow yourself time and space to navigate any challenge – mentally & emotionally.  Focus on what you can do in the moment and focus on what is in your control.

jasheletillman.me
jashele.blog
@jasheloper  
@jasheloper

Kayla Ouellette | Baker & Pastry Cook

The best advice I have is to always try your best and don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it.

@kaylastreats

Shannon Van Kirk | Health and Fitness Coach

I see this all the time as a coach because changing a lifestyle can be so hard.

The easy answer…just start! It’s not really easy though is it? We are our own worst enemies when it comes to overcoming challenges and starting something new. The human brain is actually hard-wired (like caveman days-wired) to be scared of change. It sees something new and wants to run in the other direction. New = BAD. When it comes down to it though, taking on something new is all about mindset. It may sound totally foo-foo, but if you believe that you can, you will. Its as simple as that.

When I take on new clients and coaches the first thing I tell them is to make messy movement. It doesn’t matter what you do or what you know, just start DOING. Even if its messy, at least you moved. Everything in life is figure-out-able. Take the first step and figure the rest out along the way.

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Haley Park | Student & Lifestyle Photographer

You’ve made it this far. Every trial you’ve faced throughout your life, you have made it through. I look back on my life and some of my once biggest challenges seem so minuscule when looking at my life today. Take some time to reflect on what is most important to you and spend your time and energy pouring into those things. The rest will fall into place. One of my favorite verses is Matthew 6:26, “Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?”

If God watches over the birds of the sky, He’s watching over you.

Rest in that, you’ve got this.

@haleyscomet32

Yorjelhi Prieto | Makeup Artist | Aspiring Youtuber & Mom

The advice I have for someone who is facing a challenge that feels insurmountable, would be to take a step back and look at everything you have around you. Take a look at everything in your life that is going well and continue to focus on that. Seeing the good in your life and being surrounded by your family and loved ones helps you get through the tough times. Always remember that after every storm comes a rainbow. That goes to show that sometimes we have to go through tough situations to enjoy the good times even more. We have to focus on the positive more than the negative in order to live a healthy and happy life. You can overcome anything with a positive attitude. All of our experiences whether they’re good or bad make us stronger and it’s part of what makes everyone unique.

@yorjelhiprieto
youtube.com/user/Yorjelhiprieto

Sierra Nicole | Model | Singer | Dancer | Actress

The best advice I would give someone who thinks something in their life is insurmountable or too difficult to overcome would be to take a deep breath and get out of your own head. Then after that remind yourself of who you are,and remind yourself that you can do anything you put your mind to. We are in charge of our own path,destiny,and future so don’t give up before you start.

@therealsierranicole 
@sierra.nicole.37

Noelle Rogers | Software Engineer | Graphic Designer & Cosmetologist

When I have gone through personal challenges in my life, the advice I give myself is ‘will this be as big of a deal as it is right now, next week – next year – in 5 years?’. It helps me remember to put perspective on my life and remember the purpose of why I am here. When facing something that seems impossible, remind yourself what you want to get out of it. Will it make the future you a smarter person? Will it help your future self reach your goals? I also enjoy breaking things down into small do-able tasks. This way, instead of one huge list item that needs to be checked off, you have many smaller items to check off and keep yourself motivated through the process of overcoming a challenge you feel is insurmountable.

@crazefordesign 
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Marina Nellie | Creative Coordinator  (@2911church) | Director of Marketing (@sayyestothedresser) and Photographer (@mrandmrsvillegas)

Fear and a lack of peace are two entirely different things. However, we can often times let fear be what guides our life, acting as the Holy Spirit. Yet, it is not our guide but a crutch masking itself to keep us from being brave.  The Holy Spirit speaks in truth, peace, and love yet we confuse the two, forgetting that God is not a God of confusion but of peace.

God was for Israel, not against them. He said he would smooth out their roads and lead them when they were blind. You can’t lead a blind person if they refuse to follow. However, if you were blind and you knew that the perfect guide was with you at all times… why refuse?

Fear.

God clearly tells us, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7).

Yet, when we are on our faces in fear asking God what to do, we listen to that fear to tell us how to live our lives.

If good is the enemy of the best, then fear is the enemy of power, love, and self-discipline.

What then is to be done about life’s decisions?

You must be able to know that when God is truly guiding you, even when it is scary and unknown before you that does not mean it is bad. This just means you need the faith to trust our guide. The guide who, “…will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Deut. 31:6).

Take that fear and throw it out the window, let yourself have child like faith to look fear in the eyes and say, “you are not who my Father says I am. I walk in power, love and self-discipline” Because at the end of the day we know who wins this life and it’s our Christ who was raised back to life.

@marinanellie
mrandmrsvillegas.com 

Natalia Ronceria Ceballos | Consultant & Executive Director

No matter the area of life, it is crucial to always take a step back, assess the situation from a new vantage point, & acknowledge the resources you do have that can help. Lean on any support systems (people) that you can, ask for help if needed, break down the challenge in to smaller steps, and start chipping away; in short, take action. Even if small steps. Take action and keep moving forward. Before you know it that insurmountable challenge will morph in to a lesson learned, and then just a memory to reflect upon.

@lanrc 
lanrc.co  
@lanrcllc 
linkedin.com/in/nataliarc

Alex Morgan | Realtor & hitting instructor

When faced with an adversity that seems impossible to overcome I look inside myself. I ask myself if I believe I gave it everything I’ve got to try and overcome the obstacle. If I can give more effort, or even approach a task with a better attitude, then I will make an adjustment and come back attacking. Ultimately, you are in control of your own destiny. It’s a matter of if you want to look back wondering “what if”, or if you want to look back satisfied knowing you did everything you could. Your best is all anyone can ask for.

@Alexthehomegirl 
@alex.lavine.7

Anya Melkozernova | fashion designer and fiber artist

Model: Rielle Oase Photographer: Jim Hesterman.

The best advice I can give is to be patient, all good things take time. Things happen when you’re ready for them and sometimes you just have to give yourself time, wait for yourself.

looksgoodanya.etsy.com
@looksgoodanya_design_studio

Samantha Nungaray | Mother | United States Navy Sailor & PostPartum Doula

If you are going through a challenging part in your life, remember that there is a reason you going through this. You may think that the challenge will never end or you don’t know why you have to go through this, but there is a reason. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and there will be a great blessing.

Look up, keep your head up and remember you are a strong, beautiful person. Don’t let anything get in the way of you meeting your goals in life.

@Military.Momma.Mindset 

Jessica Noto | traveling photographer | videographer and mixed media artist

Never give up! Ever! If you are born with the desire you were meant to do it. My whole life people have told me you can’t make a living as an artist! Guess what? You can! Don’t be afraid to ask for help. You will find that people who have achieved success are most happy to talk about how they did it and would love to offer advice.

Notosphotos.com
@notosphotos_photography
@ComeIntoMyLair Notosphotos
@ComeIntoMyLair 

Sara Moni | Costume Maker and Model

The best advice when facing an insurmountable task is to break down what is making it seem impossible and tackle what you can. Reward yourself for any accomplishments and take your time.

@saramonicosplay
@saramonicosplay

Lauren Paez | entrepreneur and energy healer

In my experience when I have faced challenges that feel insurmountable, I have learned to never give up and to believe in myself. Anything is possible! A couple of things that help me to face these challenges are positive thinking and vision boards. Thinking positively helps me to stay in a healthy mindset, even when things feel overwhelming. I realize that in life not everything that happens is going to be a positive experience. However, when something negative occurs I have learned to take the experience as a lesson. I acknowledge it so that I can learn from my mistakes, but I do not dwell on it. Vision boards can help people plan out their goals and dreams. I also use vision boards to help me map out how to overcome challenges. Positive thinking and vision boards can both help you to manifest positive things in your life.

@lalalotusco 
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Teresa Arteca | Barre Instructor & Studio Owner

Stay confident and believe in yourself.  Nothing is impossible.  You can do anything you set your mind to.

tenpoint5central.com
@tenpoint5central
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Stephanie Paver, MS, RD, CSO, CNSC  | Integrative and Functional Registered Dietitian Nutritionist

Berg & Tapia Photography

Your perception is your truth, and your truth is your reality. If you believe something is insurmountable, then it is. If you believe that you have the power to overcome and conquer, then you will. The power of the mind is unbeatable. You don’t have to know how you will overcome the challenge, but having the belief that it is possible will enable you to fight to make it happen.  Having this type of conviction does not come easily and may require inner reflection to re-write your self-limiting beliefs. This is something that takes daily work and repetition. Changing your beliefs will change your behavior. A great book on this topic is You Are a Badass, by Jen Sincero. One of my favorite quotes by her is “You are a bad ass; it’s not open for negotiation.”

stephaniepaverrd.com
facebook.com/StephaniePaverRD
@stephaniepaverrd 
linkedin.com/in/stephaniepaverrd

Dresden Whitehead | Nutritionist | Wellness Coach

I feel like I am currently facing an insurmountable challenge in life myself. When I look back on life and remember times I’ve felt this way before, I appreciate the personal growth I’ve experienced and the support I received from those I was in relationship with. My best advice is to find positive relationships and surround yourself with those individuals. I would also suggest finding ways to serve others in need. There is something healing about helping someone else in need. Lastly, but most importantly, conquer the battle in your mind first. Visualize yourself already victorious over what you are facing, and then get through each day by focusing on adopting a positive mindset and filling your thought life with things you are grateful for.

@dresdenwhitehead
facebook.com/dresdenwinn

Brittney Cocco | Christian | Military Wife & Mom | YouTuber & Social Media Aficionado

First, and foremost, God. If He brings you to it, He will bring you through it. Secondly, dig deep. Why are you doing whatever it is you are doing? Are the results going to be worth potentially hard work, long hours, and investment? If so, chip away, one step at a time. Proceed as if success is inevitable!

youtube.com/c/BrittneyCocco
@the.cocco.channel

Nichoelle Adler | Mom Hat and Margaritas Blog

The best advice I would give to someone who is facing a challenge they feel is insurmountable is that with depths of the sea untouched, and an infinite universe we only have room to succeed if we want it bad enough. Things may seem impossible or unobtainable but we are the only ones getting in the way of achieving the end goal by convincing ourselves it is so. When I’m not feeling motivated to start tackling the task at hand I like to break it down into smaller steps and goals, sometimes getting through the first few steps creates the momentum to knock it out.    Meditation has been a big help for me, clearing the mind to gain a new approach can cause the insurmountable to be more straightforward. It  seems like everything adds up to a huge task in our day to day adult life, prioritizing the things that bring you happiness come first my friends!

momhatandmargaritas.blogspot.com

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The Thought-Provokers: Celebrating Artists & Creatives http://voyagephoenix.com/thought-provokers-celebrating-artists-creatives/ http://voyagephoenix.com/thought-provokers-celebrating-artists-creatives/#respond Tue, 09 Jul 2019 01:00:10 +0000 http://voyagephoenix.com/?p=20353 Phoenix has always had an artistic soul.  The culture and heritage of our city, like most great cities, owes a tremendous debt to the arts community.  Supporting local art is something we care deeply about and we’d like to do everything we can to help the local arts community thrive.  Unfortunately, too often media attention […]

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Phoenix has always had an artistic soul.  The culture and heritage of our city, like most great cities, owes a tremendous debt to the arts community.  Supporting local art is something we care deeply about and we’d like to do everything we can to help the local arts community thrive.  Unfortunately, too often media attention is monopolized by corporate interests and tabloid gossip – but culture doesn’t come from a focus on celebrity breakups it comes from a focus on the arts.

Casa Grande

Chandler

Gilbert

Glendale

Maricopa

Mesa

Peoria

Phoenix

San Tan Valley

Scottsdale

Surprise

Tempe

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What’s the Best Advice You’ve Ever Received? http://voyagephoenix.com/whats-best-advice-youve-ever-received/ http://voyagephoenix.com/whats-best-advice-youve-ever-received/#respond Mon, 20 May 2019 01:00:14 +0000 http://voyagephoenix.com/?p=72054 All of us are where we are today partly because of our own efforts and partly because of the advice, guidance, influence and inspiration provided by others.  At Voyage we have the good fortune of connecting with so many of the city’s hidden gems – from entrepreneurs and creatives to athletes, researchers and more.  We […]

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All of us are where we are today partly because of our own efforts and partly because of the advice, guidance, influence and inspiration provided by others.  At Voyage we have the good fortune of connecting with so many of the city’s hidden gems – from entrepreneurs and creatives to athletes, researchers and more.  We asked them a simple, but important question: what is the best advice, personal or professional, that you’ve ever received?

Cecily Maurae – Freelance Model & Activist

The best advice I’ve received can be applied both professionally and personally: Fail and fail fast. When I first heard this I thought, “Why would I try to fail? My goal is to succeed!” My perfectionist heart wept at the thought of failing! I have since learned that failure is necessary in order to succeed. Every failure or mistake we make, whether it be a failed relationship or a failed business endeavor, is an opportunity to learn and grow. The important part is that we fail quickly so that we learn what does and doesn’t work for us soon enough to adjust our behaviors. I can’t count how many times I’ve failed, but I can tell you: my heart is no longer perfectionistic. My heart is open to failure and responds with love and determination to better myself every day.

instagram.com/cessiguess
cecilymaurae@gmail.com

Bookmans

“Arrive on time and be ready to engage with the day.” It’s always worked for me!

bookmans.com

Rob Vega – photographer and entrepreneurs

This is the best advice I’ve ever heard, from Denzel Washington, “At the end of the day, it’s not about what you have or even what you’ve accomplished. It’s about what you’ve done with those accomplishments. It’s about who you’ve lifted up, who you’ve made better. It’s about what you’ve given back.”

@G_T_A_I_N_D

Erin Green – Natural light family and portrait photographer

There are 2 pieces of advice that have helped me the most as a business person and a creative:  1 –  always avoid comparing yourself to others as each person has a different vision and is at a different point in their path; and 2 – the most meaningful and cherished photographs show connection and emotion, not perfection.

eringreenphotography.com
instagram.com/eringreen_photography
facebook.com/eringreenphotography   

Christine Cuenca – Physical Therapist

The difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is purpose!   It is great to wake up each day knowing you have a purpose. It is either making my patients achieve their short term/long term goals with their rehab at work, making it a goal for myself to lift /squat heavier at the gym, or looking forward to head on a new adventure / hike on weekends. It makes all the difference and better meaning to thrive in life.

instagram.com/azhiking.girl

Jesse Csincsak – Retired pro snowboarder, Winter Olympics Host and Winner of season 4 of ABCs the bachelorette

Nothing really good nor really bad lasts for very long find that happy medium.

ArizonaHomeCheck.com
@JesseCsincsak
facebook.com/JesseCsincsak 

Pete Carreno – Tattoo Artist

Find what you love to do and do it for a living, that way you will never work a day in your life.

Instagram – PETE CARRENO
carrenobookings@gmail.com

Maura Kirby – Angel Intuitive & Reiki Master

The best advice I have received is to live life as my authentic self and align with my inner truths. By doing so, I found the courage to stand outside the norms of society and follow my heart when establishing Grace Labyrinth Wellness Center. Initially, I hesitated to publicly express myself as an Angel Intuitive with my Reiki work. I feared judgment from others and what the world would think of me. I then chose to embrace my fears with compassion and grace. And I am now so blessed to support others through Angelic guidance and Reiki healing as they connect with their true selves.

gracelabyrinth.com
instagram.com/gracelabyrinth

Tay – College student trying to find my way through social media and my friends

The best advice I have ever gotten is to treat people with the upmost kindness and respect. No matter what race, religion, sexuality, or socioeconomic status, we are all people, and we all deserve to be respected and treated with kindness.

instagram.com/ari.zon_a

Ashley Merkel – Speech-Language Pathologist & Adventure Blogger

The best advice I’ve received, which has been reoccurring throughout my life, is that you don’t need to take a straight path to get from point A to point B. In fact, if you meander a bit, you’ll probably end up with a lot more opportunities for learning and adventure along the way.

ashinthewild.com
@ashinthewild

Blake Williams – professional photographer

Taking pictures for many years I’ve come a crossed some awesome constructive criticism and advice handed to me but to be completely honest if I were to say the best advice I’ve gotten thus far would have to be just to keep doing what I’m doing as long as it’s what I love to do. Because when you’re doing what you love it’s not work!

@blakewilliamsphotos.com     
@blakewilliamsphotos     

Abria Reece – Model | Makeup Artist | Vegan | Activist

Some great advice I’ve received is never conform to other peoples expectations or ideas of you!

instagram.com/abriareece 

Straight 928

Debbie McKee – Eclectic Visions

We would have to say the best advice we have received would be “Don’t forget where you come from,” because that is the reason behind what we do any why we represent the 928 area code and the amazing state of Arizona.

instagram.com/straight928
facebook.com/straight928

Megan Bursey – Writer

The best advice I’ve received is to do what makes you happy. After that, everything else will fall into place. It’s important to realise we are free to delight in the present and let go of the past. Creating a life we want for ourselves is slow and deliberate process.

meganbursey.com

Joncie (JD) Dilworth -Entrepreneur

The best advice … “ Do what others won’t so you can have what others don’t!”

@jd_barba
facebook.com/jdbarba1
jdbarba.setmore.com

Kimsey – The Bubble Tap Trailer, Arizona Owner

In business, admit to your mistakes and do so with confidence, not apologetically. With each failure, it means you’re that much closer to success.

taptrailerco.com
instagram.com/bubbletapphoenix
facebook.com/bubbletaptraileraz
linkedin.com/company/12987016/admin

Alyssa Wagner-Doetsch- Photographer

The best piece of professional advice I’ve ever received is to never give in to fear. Everything we want to accomplish is just on the other side of fear, and I’m learning how to overcome my fears a little more every day.

@alyssareinephoto
facebook.com/alyssareinephoto 
alyssareinephotography.com

Papago Archery Association – A club made up of families and individuals who enjoy the sport of Archery

The best advice I’ve received is ‘Always be training your replacement’.

PapagoArchery.com 
facebook.com/PapagoArcheryPhoenix

 

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